What is perversion? Everyone will answer this question in their own way. It all depends on personal internal culture, intimate education and the degree of psychological freedom of each individual person. For someone to kiss on the first date - is the height of perversion. And for someone and group sex - the most familiar version of the norm. So how to distinguish between sexual perversion and the norm and there is generally such a concept of "perversion" in sex?
In fact, there is such a thing. And it is absolutely concrete and the same for everyone. Sexual perversion is a kind of diagnosis, a type of mental abnormality in which a person can not get sexual satisfaction in the "usual" way. In most cases, perversion involves violence and superiority of power. But not always. In any case, there are several basic types of sexual perversion. About them later.
We often hear comments like: "What a nightmare! This is a real perversion! "Usually, people who have some hidden complexes react to it and are rather sluggish and not inventive in bed. And what they call perversion, often the usual expression of feelings a little more unusual for them way. People who know how to please each other, who are not afraid of experiments, can easily be perverted as perverts in the mouths of such complex and conservative hypocrites.
But there is another story. There are cases when the blood stains from the mere description of the bullying produced by some maniac over innocent victims. There is no one left in doubt at all - this is a real perversion. And no one argues with this. And such people (or non-humans) are condemned absolutely without exception. You will be surprised, but neither in the first case, nor in the second it is not about sexual perversions as such. In the first case, we are dealing with a slightly more frivolous attitude toward sex, with a kind of sexual freedom, and in the second - with a banal mental illness. So what is the difference between sexual perversion and the norm we can call then? And is it there? There is!
Perversion can not be called a kiss of a loved one, deliberate participation in group sex or the involvement of older men and women. These are just additional sources of getting normal sexual satisfaction. Perversion can not be called anal sex, sex in handcuffs or with the use of additional funds - dildos, anal beads, plethys and so on. If it gives pleasure to both partners - why not? From the point of view of specialists, this is the perfect norm. But what do experts define as sexual perversion? Here are a few of their main types:
- Agalmatophilia: with this deviation, the sexual stimulus is a nude statue or picture depicting a naked body. That is, a person can feel sexual arousal only by looking at such things.
- Asxiphophily: with this sexual pleasure comes from lack of air. A person experiences an orgasm, gasping, but not losing consciousness at the same time. Often people try to strangle themselves with a rope or a scarf, wanting to bring themselves to orgasm. Sometimes it ends in a fatal outcome.
- Voyeurism: while sexual pleasure provides monitoring of other persons without their knowledge. That is, a person watches other people, peeping through the window, for example, and this is an orgasm.
- Exhibitionism: while sexual arousal is achieved in people through the demonstration of their own sexual organs to others. Such individuals (more often men) can be found sometimes in public places. They quickly open their clothes, demonstrate their organs and hide in the crowd.
- Erotonophonophilia: while sexual satisfaction occurs during the killing of unsuspecting partners.
- Kleptophilia: with this sexual satisfaction is achieved by stealing things. From kleptomania differs only in that when kleptomania a person simply feels adrenaline rush during the theft, but does not experience orgasm.
- Coprophagia: with this sexual satisfaction is achieved while in the feces
- Masochism: this sexual pleasure comes as a result of physical actions that cause pain.
- Sadism: while sexual satisfaction is achieved by causing pain to the partner.
- MIXOSCOPY: In this case, the strongest sexual arousal is achieved by observing other sexual acts. It can be porn movies or commercials on the Internet, there may be acts peeped out of the window or somewhere outside the home.
- Naratophilia: with this sexual arousal is achieved by means of certain slang words. Roughly speaking, a person experiences an orgasm during a foul language, sharp expressions of the partner. It can be accompanied by usual sex, and maybe not.
- Necrophilia: with this sexual arousal is achieved as a result of contact with the dead body.
- Pictograph: with this sexual arousal is achieved by viewing other images / graphic materials of erotic content.
- Scopophilia: while sexual pleasure provides monitoring of other sexual acts. Not just viewing, but discussing, highlighting details, comparing with other acts, etc.
- Somnophilia or "Sleeping Beauty" syndrome: in this case, sexual pleasure is achieved by immovable position during sexual intercourse.
- Stigmatophilia: this sexual pleasure is obtained due to the possession of various material objects - mainly jewelry: bracelets, diamond rings, etc.
- Urophilia: in this case, sexual pleasure occurs when contact with urine. And, not necessarily with his or her urine partner. It may even be the urine of animals.
Having studied all these kinds of sexual perversions, you look quite differently at ordinary sex and its possible frivolities. And an innocent joke seems to be a pair of soft handcuffs and a vibrator under the pillow. And with how to distinguish between sexual perversion and the most common norm, there is no problem by itself.