Whom do we take the third: man or woman?
There can be two options: a woman or a man. Basically, if the proposal for sex comes from a man, he, of course, presents himself in the company of two beautiful ladies who satisfy all his desires. A man, like a real male, can not afford to see how his woman is satisfied with another male, so the MFM option for many men simply does not exist. That is, the rules are dictated by several male feelings: egoism (the desire that all female attention should be given only to him), proprietary feelings (unwillingness to "share" his woman with another man) and pride that can be hurt by what is happening (after all, his woman might like sex with another man). According to many, sex in the variation of MZHM for a man can be acceptable only if two friends (or just acquaintances) find a completely unfamiliar attractive woman and spend time with her in bed. No commitment, no witnesses, and most importantly - this woman is completely indifferent to the man and he does not count it with his property.
Very often a man who offers sex to a woman (wife) threesomes, sees in the role of the third, or rather the third, a common girlfriend or a friend. Naturally, any woman will immediately accept such a proposal, as a request to allow her husband to change with her friend at her eyes. Such a conversation will not lead to anything good, and a woman does not want to even think about sex three together. In this case, men, alas, "go" to the left, in order to realize their imagination without the participation of the wife and without her knowledge. Therefore, before you refuse from such a sex, you should weigh everything well and come to a compromise in finding a partner or partner for sexual pleasures. Let it be not a friend (about whom to choose for this role, we'll talk a little later), and for example, a completely unfamiliar woman.
If the threesome offers a partner to a woman (or dreams of such a leisure), then here is the all-vogue, most likely, she sees herself surrounded by two men, perhaps even completely unfamiliar. Although, as the data of anonymous surveys show, many women are very shy about talking about sex with two men and doing it with two men. They even suggest that with great pleasure they would accept the proposal to have sex in the ZHMZ format than MZHM. For a woman, especially if she is completely satisfied with her appearance and figure, such sex is needed not only for pleasure, but also for self-assertion. We can draw a conclusion that only the woman who is dissatisfied with herself can voluntarily renounce the sex of MZHM. Or the one who considers such sex dirty and unnatural, although this option for women to have sex in the threesome would not have come into their heads at all.
Third you?
Who exactly to choose for the role of the third? Talking about the format of the ZHMZH, we can say that men often propose to take with them to bed one of his wife's friends or the same familiar. Very often men talk about a particular woman in the case when they themselves would like to have sexual relations with her without the participation of their main partner. It is better to start a search with distant acquaintances, you saw each other once in your life and it is not known whether you will see or not after a total pastime. Also you can search for the third or third in the Internet. Such dating is very popular today. Although women and girls are looking for a lot more for sexual pleasures threesome, finding a decent can be difficult. Little girls immediately respond to announcements posted on the network and go to contact. A man is easier to find, but there is also much less demand for sex in MJM format. This option has another minus you can not completely trust an unfamiliar partner or partner, you should be careful with contacts, you must use a condom and other protective means. Alternatively, you can go through at least a minimal medical examination in order to be confident in its cleanliness and health.
For many, threesomes are a one-time experiment, others do it several times. In order to become pleasant, it is better that it is based on complete trust between the partners and the general sympathy.