All of us since childhood are taught to be polite: give way to the elderly and behave properly at the table, be able to accept gifts for the birthday and do not forget how to behave in society. But that's what no one bothered to teach us, so this is sex etiquette. That's why, we are so often disappointed in sexual partners, instead of getting unearthly pleasure.
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The girl does not have to show everything she can in bed on the first night. Whatever kind of experienced love you were not, we advise you to moderate your ardor. Notable superiority to a man, can frighten him out of jest. Remember - a man wants to control the process. If you are too active, he may think that it does not suit you or that you probably had lovers better than him. Therefore, try to be moderately active, show your modesty and do not lose the man you like.
Do not tell the usual adventures. Very often men and women begin to ask their partner about his sexual past. However, in the beginning of dating, it is categorically forgotten. Do not need to shoulder the burden of your new responsibility. Everyone wants to hear one thing - that he is the first in your life and all the time you have been looking for him. If you have already told, add a cute, well, can they be called men? Here you are - the best. Believe me, this flattering men. Even if he is not so sure of himself, he will be pleased to hear it.
Enough interrogations. First, your partner will not experience this positive emotions, and secondly, remember that they meet on clothes. Therefore, you should not show yourself as a true master. This will not benefit your relationship, and they can end without ever starting.
After the first night, do not ask. In the beginning of dating this is not recommended. All that a man thinks about, you use it. Therefore - keep the distance and think about the time for which purpose you decided to meet him. On how to behave correctly in sex, we will tell below.
Starting a sexual relationship with a new partner, it is important to give him the feeling that he is a special person. Say that you are very hard to get, but he does it without problems.
Talking in bed
As the Kama Sutra informs us, the conversation is the final, pleasant stage of a love meeting. About what to say in bed, we have already discussed earlier. If you highlight the main thing - the conversation in bed should be pleasant for both of you to enjoy. If you fell in love with a partner, try to fill the atmosphere of talking with yourself, pleasant, memorable moments. Describe what you feel: "Your hands drive me crazy," "You're inimitable," "Do you feel how I want you?"
Tell us about your secret desires and sexual fantasies, if you experience such. Agree on how this can be done.
Whisper to him the words that you like.
When he looks at your naked body, ask what kind of part he likes best.
A list of things you can not talk about:
- You can not talk about your former partners and your sexual interests. If you can not get around the conversation, touch your relationship casually.
- To joke about excess weight or appearance. Everyone knows how a word can injure a person. And the age here is not an obstacle. If a man and can experience this, then the woman - never.
- Conduct a hard conversation that will put pressure on a partner
- Start talking about diseases
- Ask about adultery and constantly discuss them.
In bed is not recommended:
- Manipulate. Do not say - when you decide to divorce your spouse? Until you correct - you will not get sex! Choose: either - I, or - she. So you will not achieve anything. Be able to wait. Do not criticize your body, you must love yourself.
- Blaming the partner is that you can not reach orgasm.
- In every way show that sex is not interesting for you. If so, discuss everything in advance.
- Relieve yourself of responsibility. The man will be pleasantly surprised and really happy if you sometimes take the reins in your hands.
- Avoid foreplay. Also, do not limit yourself to oral pleas alone. This is especially true of men.