Why does someone like bad weather?

It's cold, damp, gloomy. Dark clouds cover the sky, the rain does not stop for a minute, and still a strong wind. In this weather, they say, a good owner will not let the dog out. But some people even like it. I wonder why?
Firstly, such weather is loved, or rather, respected by meteorologists. They know for sure that everything in the world is subject to the idea of ​​global expediency. If there is such weather, then it is necessary for something. They do not even divide the weather into good and bad, they say only about favorable or unfavorable weather for a person. But this, too, is conditional. Life situations we have different, and hence the requirements for the environment are different. We all know how difficult it is to prepare for exams when the sun is shining on the street. It does not give an opportunity to concentrate, weakens the motivation (just at the expense of a good mood there is unrealistic optimism). It is better to let it rain - then do not have to be distracted ... And what else can you love bad weather for? And who are these people?

Melancholic personalities
All the songs about how someone threw someone, parted with someone, about how the hopes were not fulfilled, about non-reciprocal love unites something in common. This, of course, sad emotions and ... rainy weather! Do not do without a dripping rain on the background, autumn fading leaves, dark clouds and chilly wind. Most people have similar weather phenomena associated with something irretrievable and lost. It is this kind of weather that touches the hearts of poets, as well as people who recently broke up with loved ones and just melancholy. When it rains outside the window, they want to remain alone with themselves, dig into themselves, think and suffer a little. When the sun reappears in the sky, the lyricist will present his new work to everyone, a person who has lost someone will feel in himself new forces to live and rejoice. But the personality, prone to melancholy, will be clearly unhappy. And this discontent affects the relationship with the partner. There may be resentment on an equal footing, a melancholic may psychologically alienate a partner, or a grand scandal may happen. Because it's somehow wrong - to sigh and mourn for the unfulfilled love, when held here, at your side. And if at the very beginning of a relationship such unusual behavior can even attract, be mysterious and enticing, then when the relationship is already quite long and stable, it only causes irritation. And asking such a person about what he is sad, still get an indefinite answer in the spirit of "nothing." But this is the truth. A person in a state of melancholy, in fact, can mourn for things that are very abstract. About that which can not come true, but not in him personally, but in the world in general. And even if the sad memories concern him directly, this does not mean that he is dissatisfied with the present. It's just that people of this type have a need for it - to be sad, to dream, to go into memories.

Melancholics need to be made so that their love of inclement weather is correctly interpreted by family and friends. For example, you can say: "In the rain, I always feel sad, I want to stand by the window and look at the drops and gray clouds."

Self-expression
People with dysthymic traits of character (increased demands on others, irritability) themselves are like bad weather, that's why they like it so much. Although they never admit it. Quite the contrary, they criticize for nothing. With emotions, metaphors, comparisons. If it's cold, they'll necessarily say that it's chilled to the bone or that the tooth does not hit the tooth. However, it is in bad weather they have an emotional upsurge. They become more active, cheerful, as if they are in their element. The way it is. Under normal (favorable) conditions, such people feel unwell, because they can not afford to behave as they want. That is, of course, they can, but realize that from the outside it looks too aggressive. But in bad weather you can resent and swear absolutely calmly - there is an excuse, and it is common for everyone. The physical and psychological state improves, self-esteem rises. But this, of course, only for detente. And better to adapt to good weather. Yet most people it is more comfortable.

Those who know about their quick temper and irritability, it is worth not to miss any sunny day. Go out and say: "What a beautiful morning!" Then the hurricanes in the shower will be less.

Soul warmth
Some people do not like the bad weather itself, but the opportunity to hide from it: sit in a cozy armchair, covered with a blanket, or curl up on the couch, pressing a soft toy or pillow to yourself. Do not go anywhere, do nothing. Lying, enjoying comfort, taking care of yourself. Because in the middle of the day they do not have anything. Or there is, but too little. Few caresses, warmth, touches, strokes. There is not enough communication, bringing joy. Such people are generally inclined to search for tactile pleasures through clothing, interior items. They like fur, knitted sweaters, fluffy slippers. Of course, this is not always appropriate and not always possible. Let's not hug a teddy bear at work. You can hide yourself with a rug, of course, at home, but on a sunny day it will have a completely different effect - you have to admit that you wanted to climb into the burrow not just because of it, but from sadness and sadness. Bad weather makes it possible to think of nothing of the kind. It is normal that a man wants a warm and warm chieftain. However, alas, the possibilities of the rug are limited. It alleviates the manifestations of loneliness, but does not get rid of it.

Instead of wrapping in a blanket, it is better to go to visit or stroll, or invite someone from your acquaintance to a cup of tea.

Sense of harmony
Sometimes the love of bad weather is a symptom of a mood disorder or even depression. In countries with a pronounced change of seasons, just such as Russia, doctors note an increase in the number of people who are in sadness, in the spring and early summer. It would seem that everything should be just the opposite. If a person has a bad mood, then the good weather should necessarily fix it. The sun shines, the birds sing, the butterflies fly, the flowers smell sweet, the passers-by smiles - can this not please? Yes, most people are happy about it. Those who have a bad mood situationally - for a certain reason and not for long. If it is reduced for a long time (more than a month), then the good weather only adds fuel to the fire. A very sharp contrast between the internal state and the surrounding reality. It happens that such people do not even leave a break for several days and close the curtains more tightly, just not to see this fun. And in bad weather it becomes easier. There are forces for work, communication, even well-being is improving. This state should not be left without attention. It may not go by itself. It is necessary to understand how it all began and plan the development of events, drawing a hapli end. "The loss of work, litigation, heavy relationships with relatives, money problems - it's no surprise that I have such a recession now, I probably will be in such a terrible state for a few more months, but I'm sure that everything will return to normal in autumn."

A prolonged decline in mood should not be ignored. It is necessary to understand, with what all has begun and necessarily to plan successful development of events.

The case in comparison
Residents of large cities suffer from mood disorders associated with the weather, much more often than rural ones. And this despite the fact that they encounter much less weather and are well protected from its phenomena. But it turns out, this is the reason. Citizens do not feel not only bad things, but also good ones. Less see the sun, do not notice sunsets, do not feel the aroma of plants. They just do not have time to get everything they need from good weather, to recharge it with energy. Therefore, they so depressingly react to its deterioration. The only way out is to visit nature more frequently and arrange yourself a green corner on the window.