It is often believed that sex is the basis of the relationship between a man and a woman, the so-called foundation of relationships. But remember, sex should complement relationships, not replace it. And what if there is no sex in the relationship, how to be? Are there such relationships? Do they have a right to exist?
Relations without sex have the right to exist, but only if both partners feel comfortable in such conditions, that is, this state of affairs suits both sides.
Many couples have harmonious relationships without sex. They are quite enough manifested tenderness for each other, affection, warmth, attention and care. Sex for them is not something necessary in their relationship, in this situation, the lack of sex does not become a problem, partners find the sex substitutes they need, and they feel quite happy. And it's wonderful!
In general, remember that you should not go on about the stereotype: if there is no sex in the relationship, then something is wrong. Live your emotions and feelings! Every person has different needs for sex. And perhaps, the fact that for one is the lack of sex, for another, on the contrary, is considered to be an extremely saturated sexual life! We are all different - remember this. Therefore, the main issue should not be "Why there is no sex?", But "How do I feel without it?"
Unfortunately, in life there is often a different situation, when the lack of sex becomes a problem. When due to lack of sex, relationships deteriorate. Very often the partners believe: since there is no sex, then love has passed! What to do if there is no sex in the relationship, but you absolutely do not like it. That's exactly what you need to understand! First of all, do not worry! Try to understand the reasons for the lack of sex and think about who is to blame for the fact that there is no sex in the relationship. The reasons for the lack of sex can be very different. Perhaps you have a temporary psychological or physical disorder, then an experienced specialist (psychologist, sexologist, etc.) can help you several times and you feel again!
The reasons for the lack of sex can be: age, negative attitude towards oneself, dissatisfaction with life, health (more precisely, its absence), treason, resentment.
In addition, one of the reasons may be the so-called "sexual boredom" When you know in advance. What and how will happen, in what order. In this case, it is simply not interesting to make love. Very often it is observed in partners who have long been in a relationship.
It is possible to enumerate the reasons for the absence of sexual relations for a long time, but it is possible to correct the situation. No sex, turn him down! All in your hands! Apply every effort and all your imagination to restore a normal sex life.
Try to communicate openly with a partner, say that you do not like, talk about your problems and desires. This is the first help for any problems. Do not shut yourself in! Feel free to open the conversation, do not know how to start - read the special literature, it should help. Just try to choose the right time for such a conversation and the right intonation. Do not go to elevated tones and do not try to blame only your partner. In this problem, both are often to blame. The more frankly you will be, the easier it will be for you in the future.
Bring a variety in your sex life, so that each time in a new way. Be more attentive to each other, try to respect the interests and desires of your partner. Kindle passion and emotions. Be the brightest and wildest fantasies in your partner. Perhaps this will help you to role-playing games, new poses or even just a new place. You can even just spend a weekend alone together, devote time to each other and then the passion for you will return. But do not forget that the attraction arises to a well-groomed person who is watching his appearance!
If your partner needs less sex than you, try to make this time so unforgettable that the sensations will last for a long time, until next time.
If you do not want sex to go away from your life, try to be less likely to refer to headache, fatigue and employment. You can always find time for a loved one.
In general, the lack of sex frees a lot of time, energy and energy, which can be channeled in a different direction! Therefore, you can engage in active activities, what they have long dreamed of doing, but there was not enough time, plunged into the work and move up the career ladder, improve their social status. But do not become forever irritated, nervous and quick-tempered person, as this in the future can negatively affect your further sexual relations. And one more tip never forget about yourself!