The first is women's emotions. In such situations, a woman always considers herself a victim in a double degree. First, she was humiliated by a person whom she believed, secondly, she begins to humiliate herself. There is some strange and incomprehensible desire to die, so as not to feel this pain. There is a feeling that you are torn and two parts, and the pain that has arisen continues to hit the heart like an arrow. Women who react with a violent cry, tears - they are right, so they pour out accumulated negative emotions. Do not allow resentment, anger absorb yourself. From this pain and feelings of betrayal you want to get rid of both boring clothes. So gradually begins the murder in herself of that woman who is intelligent, charming, beautiful, knows how to make money, an excellent housewife and best mistress. And in order to restore this trampled female essence may need more than one year.
Rupture of relations - do not try to survive this problem alone, so that anger and disappointment does not drown you. Remember that in any situation you need to live. If possible, share your fortune with someone who wants to and can tell your grief. When you share, the dimensions of your grief become smaller, and you may be able to look at the situation from the other side.
Another option is to take a piece of paper, divide it into two parts and try to describe your new life comparatively from the past. Life before and after relationships. It is possible that you are entering a new life stage and you do not understand that it will be better. Pass your negative state to the sheet of paper, and then burn it. Let the fire take away all the worst.
Once you understand that you can keep your emotions under control, you need to clearly understand: do you want to save the family? It is from this moment on you turn into a sorceress: evil or good - it's up to you. Kind - on the path of creative action, preserving the family. An evil sorceress - continuing the destruction started by her husband.
We will not consider the magic and deeds of the evil fairy, because in all fairy tales and legends only the good Wizards win.
Firstly, it is necessary to distract, it does not mean that you need to have a lover, ostensibly to take revenge on your spouse. This is not the best way out of the situation. If both spouses are on this destructive path - in this case, love should be forgotten. Try to distract - it means to go on a trip, change the situation in the apartment. Investments in your appearance are useful. Any changes are useful. It is necessary to create an image of a calm and confident wife. Let your husband create impressions that you are so much better. Such tactics will bring the results that you want.
We do not advise you to contact different fortunetellers and magicians, who are so widely advertising themselves in the media. Firstly, you will lose a decent amount (it is better to spend this money on yourself), and secondly, hikes in such places with a shattered nervous system will not lead to anything good.
It does not matter that the relations on the side have become serious, but importantly remember that the woman's happiness is only in her hands. The classic said: life is the same scene. And the main role in the theater is performed by a woman. And the happiness of each of us is stolen, even when it seems not stolen in this sadness and joy at the same time.