How to discover femininity in yourself?

It is necessary to recognize the fact that not all women with age can ascertain the steadfast attention of husbands to themselves. And this despite the fact that they look great, lead an active lifestyle and consider themselves self-realized people!

Perhaps your family life was at first romantic, however, feelings are known to be unstable. And the moment comes when you start asking yourself questions, why everything happens. And did not you give yourself a reason to weaken the interest of a man to yourself? Another French lexicographer and philosopher Pierre Boast noted that " women are never as strong as when they are armed with their powerlessness."

The art of enchanting

You can meet a lot of women whose facial features and beautiful can not be called and their figures are ordinary, however ... Their femininity makes them desirable and attractive in the eyes of their men. In our days, femininity is a rare phenomenon. A modern woman takes an active life position and is stubborn in achieving her goals, whether in the gym or making progress on the career ladder. This, of course, is not bad, but, did you notice that your manners, gait, and look changed? Let's turn to those whose images to this day inspire many to imitate.

Remember the queen of Egypt, Cleopatra. The mother of four children and the ruler of a whole state - is she a model for the imitation of a modern woman? At the same time, she is also known as the great conqueror of men's hearts, and her art of maintaining her own beauty has survived to this day, remember at least the masks of Cleopatra and the bath of Cleopatra. But was she beautiful? On this account, there are different opinions. Some endow her appearance with a long nose and strong-willed chin. Many sources that have come down to us from ancient times say that the queen possessed a sharp, lively mind, was a great diplomat, and a low enchanting voice could bewitch anyone. For two thousand years her name has not ceased to disturb the minds of the great artists of different epochs, such as Shakespeare, Pushkin, Bernard Shaw and many others. Images of the queen, preserved on the statues and coins - are diverse and do not give a single idea of ​​its external data. Being the standard of femininity. Cleopatra remains a mystery, hiding from us its true identity under the veil of centuries.

And how many legends about the Queen of Sheba? In one of the Talmud's books, the Midrash, her mind and beauty are praised. They conquered even King Solomon. He was so fascinated by the queen of Sheba that he thought that the devil himself was in her guise. Therefore, he came up with a cunning way to test his guess, thinking that instead of the feet of the queen under the dress should be goat hooves. By the time of the arrival of the tsarina, Solomon had built a pavilion with a glass floor under which fish splashed and asked the beauty to pass into the hall. He was stunned when the queen raised her dress over the water, as any other woman would have done, and beneath it was a pair of really female legs, but curves and hairy, not at all attractive. Do you think after this Solomon lost interest in her? The appearance of the queen, accompanied by a large retinue, two panthers and beautiful half-naked divs, struck him on the spot. Yes, so that the fruit of their love was their son.

What is femininity?

Femininity is a combination of gracefulness, refinement and plastics. Femininity is recognized immediately, showing a contrast to the strong fighting qualities of a man. For the sake of a gentle and soft woman, the mountain man is ready to turn, asserting himself in his valor and masculinity. After all, the main thing for a man is to realize his power. Charles Baudelaire also noted that "a woman is an invitation to happiness."

How to look feminine?

The most important thing is to emphasize the difference between yourself and the man. Give up male fabrics and dark colors, as well as everything that makes your style man-like, including ties, vests and other elements of men's clothing. It's good to experiment if you know how to do it, but it's better to use the known feminine means - blouses, hats, berets, flowing silhouettes.

Do not you gesticulate too much? How do you laugh? Are you moderately and skillfully applying makeup? How often do you make compliments? Do they admire your grace and mannerisms? If not, it's worth looking at yourself from outside and thinking. Soft and gentle women are never alone. After all, first of all, men appreciate in companions femininity.