What is the first sexual experience?

The first sexual experience. Is it equally important for guys and girls? What does each of them feel at this moment? Can it overcome complexes and shyness? These are complex questions, which we will try to answer. As you know, men and women are beings with a completely different mindset. Women live by feelings, emotions, they are subject to fleeting desires, impulses. While men are guided by pure reasoning, calculation, constant thoughtful thoughts. Of course, at a young age this is not so obvious, but the character's sweetness is already different and the difference in gender is significant.
A young man, what does he feel when he gets his first sexual experience. Of course, his importance, the thought that he is already an adult, gives self-confidence. The desire to be "higher" than his friends at least one step, moves the young people. Often this happens at a fairly young age, and not too worried, there is love, or not, the main thing is to satisfy your ego. And let not brag, but for myself to know, I'm a man. After all, the guys mistakenly believe that if you slept with a girl, you are already a man. And not for a moment do not think that the young man does not make men men's bed, but male actions and character. But the maximalism, which is inherent in this age, and the mockery of peers, give the result. The proof of one's authority becomes above all feelings.

For girls, the first sexual experience , this is something mysterious and extraordinary. They give themselves and the price of this is virginity. Sexual intercourse, not the word that you need to determine the first sex in your life. Girls agree to a close relationship only if they are backed by feelings. And they mistakenly believe that they are reciprocated. And that guy, now should be around. But many do not know that this problem is only feminine, if you agreed to sex, does not mean a long and serious relationship. Before you decide on such a step, you should think carefully, you need it now, the time will come and it will happen, why rush. Weigh everything, do you want to have sex with this guy. If this is your deliberate decision, and you will not later regret what happened, then dare.

Due to their youth and inexperience , teenagers do not think about contraception and safety. If you are sure that your partner did not have sexual relations before, then it is necessary to take care only of contraception. But if the partner had had a connection before, then you need to take into account and safe sex.
Cases of pregnancy among adolescents are very common. Basically, everything turns out on pretty long terms, because at first the girl does not know herself, then she hides from her parents, and when she decides to say, the period is long enough, and therefore one must abort or nothing will be changed.

Safe sex , it's taking care of your health and your partner's health. If your boyfriend (girl) does not want to protect yourself, even if you have your own sexual experience, you yourself should take care of it. Since your health must be above all, the future depends on it. In our time, there are so many dangers around. Even if you are completely confident in your partner that there are no betrayals and "side" adventures, you can not know for sure how many connections he had before you, and with whom, which means that there is no confidence in his safety.

It is better to be safe.
Any close relationship is primarily a combination of souls and bodies. Do such serious things, you only need to know exactly what you want and do not regret it later. Guided by the words "And all my friends (friends) have already slept with guys (girls)", This is not correct. In your life, you are in control of your body and thoughts.