Today, society demands that it remain faithful, faithful, honest. For centuries, women fought for the status of a partner equal to a man. And in their efforts they have achieved much. The modern woman in virtually nothing man is not inferior: she is endowed with the same rights, she has the same opportunities and the results of her work, she demonstrates no less impressive. In some countries - the advocates of the Muslim faith - of course, there are ancient customs, within which the woman remains a secondary person and is called upon to bring the necessary benefit to the man. However, to solve the mysteries of the mysterious Eastern way it was not possible for hundreds of years, therefore it can not be said that modern Asian women have not surpassed their predecessors in many ways.
But with accuracy you can talk about how women have changed in society, to Islam, which is only mediated. Their image radically changed: filled with fashionable gloss, filled with pride for what had been achieved and intensified inexhaustible sources of inspiration. Together with the woman, society as a whole also changed. As a result, the world started talking about a new era, another milestone in the development of the individual, the era of equality. So what should a truly modern and truly woman in such a world remain?
A modern woman no longer fits into the image of a heroine, touching and weak.
Not the fact that this is a positive change. Not necessarily they will make the female lot easier. But the fact remains: in modern society, a woman can no longer afford to fully surrender to the power of reliable male embraces. She must be self-confident. This is for her - a psychological need. And unlike a man who, by default, believes in his abilities, a woman will not be able to prove her worthiness otherwise than by achieving the desired result. Yes, and a modern man is now much less interested in a woman who is not in a position to even support him with a serious conversation or discuss another of his projects. Consequently, the role of a touching defenseless doll for a modern woman is now a dominant can not remain.
However, the very fact that the question of what qualities a modern woman should have, in general arose, already speaks of personal transformations of the female half of the planet. Was it necessary for distant predecessors of modern beauties to take care of finding the answer to the question, what should they be? Of course, no: they were taught the rules of behavior in society from a young age, planting a male domination and their unshakable leadership. And before the modern woman all the ways are open - in politics, in jurisprudence, in the creative world of professions. And nowhere are there any restrictions or rules: it can be such as it will achieve the best result for itself. Conclusion: a modern woman should be able to analyze prospects and make serious and responsible decisions. And it must be solutions for themselves, for themselves and for themselves.
A modern woman must remain feminine.
Women become successful entrepreneurs, achieve immodest results in high state posts, even in sports women practically in no way are inferior to men. On the one hand, this is a huge step forward: as a person, a quality and decent woman, the men finally recognized. On the other hand, this is a risk that is present in any act where the edges are erased. And here all the barriers are scattered into splinters and there is practically no clear distinction between the sphere of activity of a woman and a man.
In fact, all that little that the woman has saved only for herself (or rather, it is nature that made it for her) is limited to the ability to bear children and the ability to change guises. And then, the last with the years, too, women are lost. But the woman - the past, the future, the real one - must remain the woman. With her characteristic qualities of a true seductress, talented actress, caring mother and faithful wife. Otherwise, out of the distinctive qualities of a woman, only motherhood will remain. And over time, lost in the abundance of male activities and it. And then society will be doomed. Accordingly, among the qualities that a modern woman should possess, indefatigable femininity is indispensable. For without it, romanticism will perish.
Principles of modern women.
That's why women are beautiful and amazing that they fit in themselves the image of a wise adviser and a capricious mistress, a reliable friend and stern chief, a charming seductress and keeper of the hearth. How they manage to understand this for many years, men. How can a business woman be so concise and concrete at the presentation of her project and remain so incomprehensible and unpredictable - in a relationship with her husband? How does a housewife manage to do all the chores and decorate a friend's house with a huge canvas with her own embroidered ornament? How does a student manage to go to nightclubs, and study "perfectly", and communicate with fans in pairs?
Undoubtedly, a woman during her years of personal development has achieved amazing results. But this is not the limit. And even more so - no reason to stop. A true woman always seeks an unattainable, standard image, an ideal. But there are a number of signs that will help every woman to understand if she can imagine herself from him near, or she still has a lot to work on. There are 5 of them.
1. A genuine modern woman does not hide her talents, but she does not boast of them either. Equally, she values both success and failure. But in each of the situations he remembers that both facets of success are deceptive and inconstant.
2. A real modern woman should be able to respect others. But only those of them who are worthy of her respect. Not only does she appreciate a man's company, but a company of men always appreciates her.
3. A true modern woman should have the skills of literate analysis. Being a star of the first magnitude, she is not afraid to eventually surround herself with partners (girlfriends, colleagues, acquaintances) of equal value. Otherwise, her life is not a pleasure.
4. A modern woman is beautiful and externally, and internally. She does not suffer from envy and knows how to learn every moment. Insecurity or excessive self-righteousness is not for her. They do not accept them and do not encourage them in others.
5. And, of course, a real modern woman is intelligent, talented, interesting. Like her predecessors. Only she knows this and, unlike the previous generations, is not going to hide her dignity from the audience.