The more woman and man are together, the more there are some disagreements between them, which in turn cause quarrels and scandals. Probably, during this time it would be possible to study this person, but completely accept each other, it is impossible. Sometimes women adjust to a man, because of great love they sacrifice, they play the role of a good wife. But these suppressed desires and protests will someday find a way out. The cause of disagreements and scandals is a misunderstanding.
How to understand a loved one?
You need to talk to him correctly. A man does not show his emotions as brightly as a woman does. A woman needs to learn how to speak the same language with a man. Women want from a man what they can not give, and not because they do not want to, but simply can not understand what a woman wants from them. It is important to learn to convey to the man his desires and thoughts.
It is necessary to clearly formulate a topic for conversation. Turned eyes, inflated cheeks scare men and are incomprehensible to them. They do not know how to react to it, and how it will end. You just need to tell him directly what you want from him. For example, tell him that you want him to call you back so you do not have to worry. Tell him what you want him to kiss you when he meets you, so that you feel loved and needed.
During a conversation, do not try to hurt his male pride. Do not compare it with other men, the conversation will not work and it will close. Each conversation ends with conclusions. Therefore, after completing a long monologue, draw a conclusion. Do not be surprised if a man understands you and answers everything with just one phrase, his reflections, he does not say aloud.
Men differ from women psychologically, emotionally, intellectually and physiologically. But during domestic problems, few people remember this, although everyone knows about it. But this knowledge would help to avoid unnecessary quarrels and insults.
From the nature of their men conquerors, they are strong in the spirit of struggle. They are much more stubborn and persistent than women, they like to gain attention and defend their opinion. Women are inclined to compromise and they do not need to forget about it, and in difficult situations show their female nature.
The woman says, and does not think, but the man acts without thinking about it. Do not be offended by men who, without thinking, will do something. A woman does not understand that for a man, looks are not the main thing, and then scold him that he came in an insipid sweater. And for a man, the main thing is for him to feel comfortable in this dress.
The look of a man to another beautiful girl is equated with a woman. But all this is not so. It's just that men have erotic vision, and when he sees a female figure, clothes, makeup, he is involuntarily excited. This does not mean that he will abandon everything and run after a stranger. Women should perceive a man adequately, do not take offense and do not get irritated.
When discussing family relationships, you can often hear from girls and women that she is doing everything for him, and he does everything wrong, or spitefully, or does nothing, and still walks to the left. And so they live in constant irritation and displeasure with each other, but, not a single woman asked: "Why not so? What should I change in myself? "
A woman does not know, does not seek, and most often can not give something, but he also has a desire to cherish, take care, give love. She does only what she thinks is necessary, and waits for the man to appreciate it. When she does not get it, he becomes not loving, not grateful, and the woman understands that his ideal relationship model, and his perception is not like your model.
If you think about it, then everything is clear. You have different relatives, they also have their own expectations and attitudes, different places of work, different teachers, friends and so on, you can not have anything the same. There may be something similar, but not the same. This is all designed so that you can also on the other hand understand your beloved, understand your world. Who as a non-beloved person can be encouraged to look for himself when the relationship is not harmonious. Even if you pretend that everything is fine, this is an excuse to change, reflect, and shows what you need to change in yourself.
After all, not so much is required, just to get accustomed, listen to your beloved, and, in the end, to see and hear, then the man wants. This will make him happy, and he will aspire to go home. What you need to do to a woman so that he is always happy. There is such a thing as the five languages of love. You can consider and apply them in life.
5 languages of love.
Number 1. Words of approval .
These are good, kind words that relate to the loved one, not to manipulate them, but sincere, for the fact that he did a simple routine work, say, took out the garbage. Or words of approval and support, when he tells, about his plans and intentions. After all, any kind word is pleasant for a person.
Number 2. "quality time . "
It's to spend time with him, not with a newspaper, television, computer. Do not devote your beloved to your life, but to allocate time, show a desire to be with him and sincere interest.
Number 3 - Receiving a gift .
A gift means that you are remembered and loved. Do not wait for a special case. It will be perceived as an expression of love on your part.
Number 4. Acts of service.
This is to perform the actions that your beloved expects from you. A man needs to feel loved.
Number 5. Physical touch .
Such people are waiting for the partner to touch them, embracing watching TV, hugging and kissing. It is important to turn to each other, listen and hear, negotiate, and this applies to both women and men.
How can you understand a man, the main thing is not to forget that the language of respect and love will help you to understand each other much easier.