All women dream of a real prince. Or just at least about a real man. So what is he, this real man from the point of view of a woman, what should a real man be like, do stereotypes of women play a role here? How to make out the present in the crowd? We'll find out today!
He, of course, must have a solid character (not gang), have physical strength, courage, responsibility and a sense of humor, not to be a bore. In addition, be independent in making serious decisions, and be constantly on the move (reclining on the couch in front of the TV is undesirable).
A real man is a charming man and easy to climb. He who understands his woman and knows how to forgive our small weaknesses. She loves a woman, she loves her. He does not like scandals, he does not refuse any women's work. Always generous. Self-sufficient in household matters, the breadwinner. Is able to arrange surprises and holidays. Respects and loves her baby. Give coffee, calm the child.
From work he comes, tired, but not irritated. He will never allow his beloved to carry heavy bags. Carefully listen to you, delving into your problems. Beautiful father.
In the bed an eagle . In sex, a real man is active, knows no fatigue, and foresees everything himself. If this is so, then everything said above may not be of much importance. And if sex is not his hobby, he is needed in life. But under this condition, someone else can become a "real man".
In life, we have become accustomed to the phrase "a real man ...", but no woman can show with confidence a real man. Because there is not yet a single man who would fit completely under this definition. The image of a real man is just a woman's dream, her ideal, which she seeks to find her whole life. But this is far from reality and therefore possible is unattainable. And the reason is that in this image we, women, unite precisely those features and qualities that we consider to be the best. A person is not perfect. And in every man there is always something from the ideal, but everything can not simply coincide. So why do we, women, need the image of the ideal man. It's just necessary to compare something with someone who arises on our path. And then every woman, realizing that there is no ideal, yet in the depths of her soul hopes that she will meet the "ideal man".
So, with a woman's eyes, everything is clear - we'll sum it up, to love, to give flowers, to give salaries and mother-in-law to my mother, as in a famous song. But it's interesting to see what men think about these women's dreams.
A woman needs a solid man, not a gangster - fine, this is the quality of the leader, and every man in the soul is the leader.
We need a physically strong , tall, handsome - but if nature has cheated, then it's not scary, there are a lot of women and someone will bite. And it will be an adequate woman, believing that a man does not have this dignity.
Women like brave men , and they consider courage the dignity of cannon fodder. He is a leader, and this is cautious, thoughtful and respectful of his interests. A brave one is ranked lower. It's like a soldier for a general.
Independence and responsibility are the qualities of the leader, and with this the strong sex completely agrees. But about the sense of humor and tediousness, men do not agree. They are leaders, and they are not concerned. After all, the higher the rank, the better the sense of humor and the complete absence of tediousness.
Weak sex wants a man, without hesitation, at the first request to fulfill any desire. It does not suit them, because this behavior is not a leader.
None of the men would agree with the situation to understand a woman without knowing it completely. But a woman wants to remain a mystery, but at the same time to get understanding from a man. And this is a complete contradiction, like everything in a woman. And this is the essence of the female character.
A man does not agree with the desire of a woman to own him exclusively, the leader. It allows him to have success with others, but requires attachment to himself.
Pride is the destiny of the insecure man. In addition, it's easier to manage. This is the ideal lever for control. Type of the guy the car is steeper than you, and the like. But such a man is not a leader. Like aggressive men in life, but not in relation to a woman. And aggressive ones who do not cope with the role of the leader.
He loves and cherishes his woman. Self-sufficient, not sentimental man - in one word the leader. Such scandals do not suit, and does not respond to women's scandals.
A woman needs generosity , but this is not a trait leader. Man leader - is prudent in financial matters and uses them as levers of control. But the desire that he, without refusing to do a woman's work, a man considers a manifestation of the features of a henpecked husband. If a woman thinks that a man should solve his household issues (washing clothes, sock) on his own, then in this case he has the right to believe that he is simply not loved, but used - and will be right. If a woman does not want to delve into your problems at work, then the man is indifferent to her and uses it as an ATM.
Holidays, surprises, standing at the stove - this is not for the leader. Since he organizes the process, and does not take it upon himself. To take on the difficulties of life (if necessary) is yes, but the leader can not be jealous.
So, what is the conclusion? A real man for a woman is always easy to manage with a combination of qualities useful to her. Of course, without negative features. In addition, in her desires a woman often contradicts herself. That is why we can sum up a certain result. The image of an ideal man is a certain lever of pressure that a woman exerts. The expression "real man" sounds from all sides. In life, such a man can not be met, and artificially more so, since many features are contrary to male nature. Now you know how most women imagine the second half and what it should be, a real man, a stereotype of the weaker sex, undoubtedly, and form its image.