So, what do you need to do, how to behave and how to act?
Almost always, such articles begin with a conversation about appearance. Of course, for men this plays a very important role. But, nevertheless, now we will talk about what, without which even a written beauty will be a gray mouse for a guy.
It's about self-confidence. No man paid attention to the girl who hates herself. A guy needs someone he can be proud of. And how is it possible to admire a lady who considers herself miserable? That's right, it's just unreal.
That's why, among these several methods to win a guy, the first and most basic will be: to believe in yourself.
Think for yourself, you have watched more than once, just roll the lady of the buns along the street, and next there is a slender and handsome man? It was so? It was. You see, this woman simply believes in herself, believes so much that she subconsciously convinced that guy in her beauty.
What can I do to feel confident and free? It is always necessary to think about good things. Are not you complimented? Here also remember them, and then repeat to yourself at a time when you decided to stoop, lower your shoulders and hide from the whole world. You should have a gleam in your eyes, you should feel like a princess or queen when you walk down the street. You have to convince yourself that men are looking at you. You may not believe it, but, in time, it will be so. When you really start to believe in it, guys will feel your energy and involuntarily fall under its influence. You will be able to enchant and bewitch anyone who encounters on your journey, if you charm yourself.
Talk to yourself. This is by no means the behavior of a person who escaped from a psychiatric hospital. Of course, I do not mean hourly discussions about the heat balance and degeneration of pandas. Learn to look at yourself in the mirror and say that you are nice, cute, you have a beautiful figure and slender legs. Even if the brain and heart completely refuse to believe it, you still need to convince yourself, constantly and methodically. Only in this way you can overcome your complexes and feel your female power.
There are a lot of special auto-trainings, but, do not forget that the psyche and psychology of each person is individual. Therefore, come up with your own training. Use those words that will definitely raise your spirits. It can be compliments, praise, anything, anything. The main thing is that it should act on you, forcing you to raise your head higher and go further, not being afraid of anything and no one.
When you wake up in the morning and say these phrases: "Today, with me, there will be three miracles! - I permit! All the barriers - cancel! "To enhance the action, after" permit "and" cancel "you can click your fingers. This simple psychological exercise helps to be charged with a positive and good mood for the whole day.
In addition, try to be in the circle of positive people. Of course, this does not mean that you need to repel friends who have problems or some kind of grief. But, if a person is constantly around who complains every day, how bad things are, constantly cries and is very pessimistic, you involuntarily get a charge of negative energy from him and also start to see everything in black tones. Therefore, whenever possible, try to avoid such persons.
If you learn to love yourself, then you can move on to the rest of the advice regarding appearance and behavior.
Here everything is quite simple. When choosing a wardrobe, you need to take those clothes that always emphasize virtues. In addition, your images should be stylish and complete. And it does not matter where you buy clothes, the main thing is that all the elements perfectly complement each other and be combined according to the color scheme. In addition, it is desirable to wear heels more often. Men like to look at slender, tightened female legs. Skirts and dresses are also welcome. Always remember that between the effectiveness of brightness and vulgarity there is a big difference. Therefore, try to select a wardrobe so that it looks like an extravagant lady, and not like an ordinary PTU-shnitsa.
Of course, men love not only the eyes, but also the ears. Therefore, read more, look more, be interested in art. To interest a guy, you must always be able to maintain a conversation with him. I think you are not interested in limited young people who do not even have a secondary education, and who does not care what you say there. But for normal guys, the fact that a woman is interested not only in clothes and cosmetics, but also in theater, cinema, art and literature is extremely important.
For a guy, also important is the ability of a lady to listen and understand him. Therefore, it is always worthwhile to take an interest in the work of a young person, his hobbies and, of course, problems. But, in everything you need to know the measure. Do not falsely admire the fact that you are just annoying. Do not constantly climb into the soul, to try and patronize. You just need to show that you are not indifferent, and you are ready to listen and help at any time.
And the last - show independence. Of course, one does not need to decide everything and completely ignore the opinion of a young man. But, to be absolutely helpless and naive girl, also, is extremely undesirable. A man should understand that you always accept his care and protection with joy and respect, but if he is not there, you will not be lost either. After all, guys like strong girls, but not stronger than themselves.
Here are those few basic and effective methods that will help almost any girl to win almost any guy. However, life is a complicated and unpredictable thing ...
All of the above are just general, basic moments. Each person needs his own, individual approach. That is why, in order to interest the guy, you need to be able to observe him, listen and remember many small things. Then you can understand his desires and tastes, and act on the basis of his knowledge.