Male love and its types: agape, ludus, eros, mania, pragma, storge

Aristotle singled out 6 types of love, on the basis of which we can predict the future of relations between men and women. For this it is sufficient to know the representations of the strong half of humanity about love. This is what we will detail in our article "Men's love and its types: agape, ludus, eros, mania, pragma, storge."

Love agape

This is the type of sacrificial love. In order for the beloved to be happy, the man will "throw" at her feet.

The behavior of a man. A man takes care of a woman for a long time before telling her about her feelings. His feeling is unselfish. For the sake of his beloved, he is ready for any feat, he will give the last kopeck, and so on.

Forecast of relations. Of course, this kind of love has many advantages. It is always pleasant to feel that a man sacrifices himself for your sake. Such a man causes trust, respect. However, this kind of care begins to irritate with time. The role of the "loving father" does not cause a sexual attraction in a woman. In addition, when a man does not demand anything in return, then you begin to appreciate him less. As a result, it turns out that he is imposing you with his concern, constantly supervises.

Love Ludus

This type is called love-game. It is based on sexual desire.

The behavior of a man. A man does not care for a woman, since he believes that his sexual attraction to her is a confirmation of love. Such a man does not try to recognize you as a person, person and get closer in spiritual terms. He is offended by the female rejection of sex. If a woman tries to keep a man of this type at a distance, then he begins to cool to her, since he believes that if there is no intimacy, then he is not interested in a woman. In addition to you, a man can also meet with other women in parallel, and is not at all jealous when flirting with other men. He calls only when he wants to meet with you for intimacy.

Forecast of relations. At the beginning of your relationship you will be overwhelmed with feelings and emotions. However, with the passage of time, you can understand that besides sexual relations with this man you do not have anything to do. Such men are usually selfish and live only by their own interests. If you stop to satisfy his sexual desires, he will grow cold to you. His feelings are superficial and fleeting. If you are not around, then the separation is easy, and his love is only manifested when you are near. If you decide to quit, you will not see visits with a bouquet of flowers, calls with confessions of love. Your relationship is a small affair and, if you want it to continue, do not impose your responsibility on your man for relationships and feelings.

Love Eros

It is a type of sensual love. The basis of love is eros - devotion, and only then physical attraction.

The behavior of a man. A man is actively interested in you, your life, your affairs and problems. After the first night does not disappear. You always have topics for conversation. During such conversations a man tells you not only about his personality, but also interested in your mood, feelings.

Forecast of relations. Your relationship is ideal. This is the type of man with whom you will be happy. A man appreciates you, he will not assert himself, only to prove something to you. He is always pleased to take care of you, and he is happy when you are happy.

Love Mania

Such a man's love is called love-obsession. At the heart of this kind of love is jealousy and passion.

The behavior of a man. The main thing in a relationship for a man is himself. He constantly self-affirms at the expense of others with the help of rudeness, humiliation, etc. A man unconsciously awaits the appearance of problems in the existing relationships or creates them himself. He longs for the partner to become dependent on him. In addition, he believes that a woman should be happy already because he is next to her. A man always tries to avoid routine, routine, boredom, as well as sympathies and attachments. That's why he often changes friends, partners, place of residence, sphere of professional activity, and for sure, not once was married.

Forecast of relations. You will always be under control. His pathological jealousy is not a fear of losing you, but a fear that you can escape from his domination. The more a woman is weaker and more dependent in such relationships, the more confident a man is in himself. A man constantly seeks to arouse in you a sense of duty to him. He takes your love for granted. The more you try to get closer to him, the more he will push you away. And vice versa. So it will be repeated until both of you get tired of it. The gap is usually provoked by the man himself, once again trying to prove his worth.

Love pragma

This is a type of "rational" love.

The behavior of a man. Such a man needs a "comfortable" woman. During his acquaintance, he tries to find out what woman is a mistress, her prosperity, etc. Thus, a man is more important than your status, not your personality.

Forecast of relations. No passions, pleasant surprises, do not wait. Your whole life together will be accompanied by the feeling that you are a commodity. If you give the man everything that is required of you, then in your family be harmony, harmony, stability and love. If not, then the relationship will break. A man will constantly strive to control all his feelings, and accordingly from you will demand the same. This type of relationship is not acceptable for individuals who constantly seek new impressions, feelings, feelings, changes.

Love Storge

This type of relationship is built on love-friendship.

The behavior of a man. A man shares with you all his thoughts, problems and listens to you. You can talk with him and discuss any topic. You will never have the question of how to tell or tell about something. You know that you always get support from him and so you do not have to trust him.

Forecast of relations. Over time, a man and a woman in such relationships can become crowded, because they know about each other everything: thoughts, desires, feelings. In this situation, partners can stop being interesting to each other. Perhaps, he will want new strong emotions and impressions. You should always have a hobby that will equip your personal space.