First love ... For someone it's romance, flowers, lovely poems, songs with a guitar under the moon. For others - tears, experience, pain, long sleepless nights and unfulfilled dreams. But for those, and for others, the first love is an unforgettable feeling that can not be erased from memory. But why is it so? Why do we forget much, but not the one whom we first fell in love with?
Purity of feeling
When we first love, we still do not know the disappointments in this feeling. For us, almost all the guys are good. And even if they are bad, they will necessarily change for the sake of love and become beautiful princes. For the first time we love at a fairly young age, so we do not yet know how to rationally evaluate candidatures, do not think about the future, do not think skeptically. The first love is like a belief in a fairy tale. It is so pure and naive that a person has a lot of positive feelings. Even when our first love is unhappy, vseravno pleasure from experiencing a feeling that a person before did not know, blocks the pain. And in time, only good memories remain for the first love. And if they are not very good, they are still too memorable to forget them. First love is a turning point in everyone's life. It is then that we grow up, but the feeling is included in the pure and unblemished by the darling and betrayal of the soul.
We idealize our first love. But it is known that people tend to remember the good and forget the bad. And the feeling of love, which is grave, is still good, because despite the experience, for at least some time a person literally hovers from emotions overwhelming him, reveals something new, tries and reaches some tops. Love really inspires, especially the first. After all, then we believe that it is impossible to live without love, that with lovers of paradise and in a hut, that if once fell in love, it is forever. That is why even decades later we remember the first feeling with warmth. When a person loves for the first time, probably, most of all reveals the soul the hardest is all laid out, feeling, loving, sensing. Later we begin to be disillusioned and already try not to allow ourselves such strong emotions. But the most powerful flashes of adrenaline are stored in everyone's memory. And the first love is a continuous adrenaline, for the feeling is so new, special, unexplored. And every discovery in our own soul brings us seamenities that try with us forever.
For the first time, in the first class
Everything that we see, hear, feel for the first time, while experiencing strong feelings, remains in our memory almost forever. Each of us went to school for the first time, for the first time went to the sea, first went to the mountains. Remember, all your "for the first time." Each of you remembers this as something special, something unusual. Then, when we came to the same school for ten years, we seem completely different from what it seemed for the first time. But this is the first sense we remember. The same happens with the first love. For the first time we see and feel especially, we can say distorted, because we still do not know all the "pitfalls" of love. Because of this, our first feelings are remembered best. When a person loves for the first time, he sees his object senses as something special and perceives everything in a special way, a little bit like a fairy tale. Ie, his first feelings are significantly different from the following. Then, falling in love, a man often lends his feelings to doubts, analyzes think andrealistic thoughts are simply eclipsing emotions, that's why they are not so memorable. During the first love, people practically do not think with their heads and allow the heart to decide for them. And the heart evokes such vivid sensations that it is impossible to remember them extensively. The first love, in fact, is based on the first emotions of this type. Since all the first is the most striking and special, human memory remembers and preserves everything. Therefore, it is very important that the first love does not bring a lot of disappointment, because for a person this can become an injury and it will not be able to fully open your heart and let yourself love. If the first love is pure and bright, even if it is not long, remembering about it, a person still continues to believe in the best to find a worthy couple, not wanting to think that this feeling brings only misfortune.
Pre-Taste Adventure
The first love we remember also because it is a special fairy adventure, full of adventures and unexpected confessions. This after years, each of us understands that all actions were trivial. But then, being young pure and naive, we see all the events in a completely different light. If the girl escapes from the house in the evening to meet the boy, she at least feels like a princess who broke out of the tower in order to meet her enchanted prince or a rogue robber. When a boy fights for the first time because of a girl, he feels himself as the knight or robber who protects his princess from malicious throats and other evil spirits who want to encroach on her honor and beauty. This then we begin to understand that walks on dark alleys do not lead to anything good, and fights can end very badly. And when we realize it, then the whole feature of these little things, really sincere acts. Loving for the first time, we feel and see everything through the prismatic youthful maximalism, thanks to which everything is perceived sharper, stronger, more painful. In this case, the girls and boys have not forgotten their games and adventures, when the tree could be a real house, vampires lived in the garages, and the ruptured canalization in the courtyard was represented by fabulous labyrinths. That's why, for the first time in love, people mix their feelings with their fantasy fantasies, which are not yet ready to be forgotten and left in childhood. Because of this, the first love is perceived as a special tale, as a special adventure, in which there is what happens that can not happen, something that will never happen again. And just as we remember our favorite fairy-tales and games, we remember our first adult play - the first love.