But no matter how it seemed, at different ages feelings differ from each other. In adolescence, everything seems much brighter and easier. Do not care for minor household problems, and what others will say. You love your soul mate only because she is with you, and this proves much, as it seems at that moment. A person is loved not for something, but simply because he is near. To a greater extent at this age is chosen in appearance, material status, popularity. After all, many young people are found only for ostentatious significance, and giving a certain authority.
Love in a more mature age is not so cloudless . Not for nothing there is such a proverb "You need to get married in youth." This suggests that at a young age the feelings are much freer and are not driven into the framework. In adulthood comes the realization that just loving, little, we need the basic components of reliable relationships: trust, respect, understanding, the opportunity to compromise, support, these feelings are just as important as love itself. Maybe that's why when they become adults, it's much harder to find a couple. Because they are guided not only by feeling, but also by attitude, attention. This is checked very simply, help in a difficult moment, testifies to the desire to support in a difficult situation, to substitute a shoulder, and to be a reliable support. During illness, protect from all adversity. Material support, the desire to give all the best to their second half. All these proofs of love act in adulthood, only when they are collected into a single whole. Love for a person without basic components is possible, but only it is not enough for a long time, and it quickly passes when faced with life's difficulties, problems quickly sober up and make you see.
A man who has fallen in love with a woman with a child has a dual responsibility. Since he must protect not only his beloved woman, but also the child. A woman with a child when choosing a chosen one motivates her choice with a general attitude. Since they are one with the child, and the man must understand that the mother will not go against the will and well-being of her child. All that is good for the child will be good for the mother. You can not impose yourself in any way. It is necessary to win trust, achieve understanding. If the child sees that his mother is respected, loved, then he will be drawn to you. If on the contrary, then you will never be able to achieve a positive result. Children all feel at a subconscious level, it is impossible to deceive them.
It is foolish to think that love happens only at a young age. More strong and reliable feelings arise at a later age. They go through a kind of "selection" according to the components listed above. If such a person is found, this love will last forever, unlike the youth. Therefore do not hesitate to show feelings at any age, but do not forget about your loved ones, children, parents. They need to know that you are happy, you feel good. Let them rejoice with you.