Rules for maintaining good family relations

Regardless of how strong mutual feelings are in your married couple, a happy relationship is difficult to maintain. In order not to lose the love of your second half for life, you need to adhere to certain norms and rules that are recognized by experts in the therapy of married couples. These tips should be heeded even by those with many years of experience in such a seemingly intimate area of ​​relationships, like family happiness.


Do not lie ...

Lying, even over trifles, especially at the beginning of the emerging relationships, is one of the biggest mistakes committed by people who have fallen in love with each other. Lies always come to the surface, it kills confidence and in the end, love and respect will disappear.

Learn to give in

This rule can be considered one of the main canons for building a happy relationship. Do not get hung up on what is right or wrong, you are not competitors, you play in the same team.

Do not complain.

Do not dismiss the nurse for anything, be positive and do not complain about everything in your life. If something oppresses you, talk to a friend. And if this affects your relationship and requires them to change, ask for help in finding a solution, but do not pray for mercy.

Communicate more often

Although you are a married couple and live under one roof, you have not learned to read the thoughts of your second half. I want to know what your beloved thinks about? It's better to just ask. Figuratively speaking, communication channels should be open, otherwise any warm feelings will drown in silence.

Maintain your appearance as if you were alone

Do not take your partner's love for granted. You should care about his opinion of your appearance, that you like him, that he was drawn to you. Then you will not have any reason for jealousy or disappointment.

Be enterprising

Boredom is not included in the list of what is needed for a good relationship. The daily routine, like dust, will hide all the good in long-standing developed feelings. Learn together a new language, plan your trips, change the restaurants you visit, make love in crazy places, just do something new every day.

Argue politely

Disputes that are constructive are necessary for a good relationship. After all, they stimulate the search for solutions and help relieve tension between you. In a dispute with a loved one, do not forget to always be polite and respect him. Regardless of the fact that you are overwhelmed, anger or excessive pride, control your language and do not play on the feelings of the spouse, especially in public places. You will always be loved for your kindness, understanding and courtesy, especially if they were manifested in difficult times.

Take time to embrace

Just a few seconds is needed to start your day with a smile. Hug, cuddle, kiss and caress your loved one as often as you can. Even if it does not lead to sex. But you both developed oxytocin, a hormone of happiness that strengthens your feelings and makes you happy.

Be ready to give, without asking anything in return

It sounds paradoxical, but if you want to get, then offer it first! In good relations there is no place for selfishness and calculation, your good intentions will necessarily be followed by the same benevolent responsiveness.

Never stop knowing each other

No matter how long you live together, do not stop the opening process of your half of the new beautiful, charming you and surrounding features. Those special moments when you just stroll in the park, holding hands, as in the first days of your acquaintance or a romantic dinner in a good restaurant, going on a nature or visiting old friends, are the most objective indicator of fortress and happiness in your relationship.