Who among us would not want to have a really close person close to him, capable of sharing all the joys and sorrows, turning life into a fairy tale. At the first stages of family relationships, it often happens: the husband wears a woman in his arms, caresses with her, he is attentive. But several years pass, and bright life is replaced by gray everyday life, which is aggravated by the addiction of partners to each other. Here you have already learned to guess the wishes of the spouse, you know that he will respond to your thoughts and actions. Against this background, there are quarrels that can completely discourage the desire to do romantic things, the couple openly express dissatisfaction with their second half.
How to be in this situation, is it possible to revive the dying romantic feelings, to introduce some element of novelty into the relationship or the train has left and everything that can be done is quietly and peacefully parted, promising each other to remain friends?
Take your time: nature has its own laws!
Many things in the universe develop according to the cyclic law. Look around: winter is replaced by spring, the periods of crisis precede the flight. The same goes for relationships, and, as friendly, and lovers. It is worth experiencing adversities and will be replaced by updated feelings.
It is proved that no relationship is standing still, they develop or come to naught, but nothing in this world is in a frozen state. Having dealt with the situation, it can be understood that with the development of love in the couple comes mutual understanding, support, trust. Of course, long-term relationships have some disadvantages: couples who have lived for many years in their marriage, are already not experiencing such a vivid sexual interest to each other, do not show their own individuality.
Psychologists note that there is no fundamental difference in how long a couple is together: interest in their second half is lost as a week of romantic dates, and after 30 years of joint life. Most often a significant decrease in interest is noted by one of the partners, but it happens that both people cool down simultaneously. Because of what happens and can you somehow restore romance?
Practice shows that it is the most painful to realize that it is possible to end in one moment those who sincerely believe that one relationship can last a lifetime. Registry offices issuing printed passports do not guarantee a long life together and it should be understood that by putting the rings on each other's fingers, you are standing at the beginning of a difficult journey. But how long it will be, time will tell.
So, you have a permanent partner, but the relationship with him significantly dimmed. If you want to resume that romance that was at the beginning of a relationship, you should listen to the following recommendations.
Options for overcoming the crisis of relations
The first thing you need to do is to analyze your behavior, try to understand what you feel for the person who is in charge. Some women, feeling discomfort in a relationship, immediately get married to criticize a man. Refuse this addiction, because it is able to alienate even the closest people. Remember that the "woman-saw" eschechenkomu happiness did not bring and a man sooner or later go to seek more comfortable living conditions. Think, is your spouse so bad that he has nothing to praise? He learns lessons with his daughter, enjoys playing exile? Yes, he's an excellent family man! Every evening a dog walks, ready to use all the shelves in the house and can clean the clogged pipes himself? And after this you think that there is nothing to praise and respect for ?!
When you understand yourself, do not hesitate to bring the problem to the discussion. Tell the man that you are worried that romance has gone out of your relationship, and you would like more affection and, perhaps, erotic experiences. Ask your loved one to come up with his options for getting out of the situation, and you will understand that solving problems together is much easier.
In order to renew the interest of a man to your body, engage yourself. For this, it is absolutely unnecessary to spend half a day in the gym, enough to enroll in the pool, go to Pilates, try that such a strip-plastic. In a word, improve, and the husband will notice changes to the best.
Give each other more freedom! For example, one evening you can rest and replenish forces separately from each other. A woman in this time can go with her friends in a cafe, steam in a bath, visit a SPA salon. The husband also, for certain, will easily find, than itself to occupy: a hike with friends in stadium, dialogue behind a mug of beer, a sauna - no trouble that the spouse will go there without you.
If you have the opportunity, it is advisable to allocate one day to your beloved. At this time, you can do self-improvement, go on courses, where you will be taught to make jewelry with your own hands, to make hand-made cards. In short, have fun and learn to appreciate yourself. Only in this case you can expect that your man will also understand how valuable you are to him.
Even if you have been married for many years, no one has canceled the romantic meetings - you can find time for them to be a very busy person. Invite your loved one to an interesting place, and next time let him decide on how to spend time outside his home.
An important role in mutual understanding between partners is played by a harmonious sexual life. And even if everything suits you, do not forget that you can make a novelty by periodically experimenting with poses, putting on an interesting erotic underwear, in a word, try to keep the interest of the man asber as long as possible.
Establish relationships will help and talk on topics of interest to all, as well as planning a joint future.
Try to hug your partner as much as possible, tell him how much you love him and how you love him. If you do not have enough free time, which you could spend together, think, maybe you will reconsider your work schedule. If you can not implement such a plan, try to at least have breakfast and dinner together.
A separate conversation is the restoration of the child's relationship with the child. A woman at this time gives most of the day to the baby, often she does not have enough time to take elementary care of herself. Close will help the joint care of the baby. Do not also give all your time to the child, remember, the husband also needs your attention.
When restoring relationships with loved ones, it is important to remember that the front lines are not the enemy, wanting you all the worst, not lazy, dreaming to quickly get to bed, but the person to whom you devoted some part of your life. Communicating with your man, do not forget what kind of relationship is asked by your wife, often think about what methods you can achieve your goal. Are you ready to swear on every little thing, risking losing your loved one and destroying the family?