In families with very strict rules, and also in foreign parents never remain with children naked. And in our families - anything can happen. Judge for yourself, what kind of piety can be a speech when a family of four lives in a one- or even a two-room apartment?
Where to change clothes to parents so that their teenage child does not feel uncomfortable, having found their parents behind this process - not in the bathroom, in fact!
And yet there is the age of children, to which parents can be naked with them. As a rule, for parents of different sexes this age is different.
This complex, complex issue ...
As soon as the question of morality is raised (it is normal or immoral to walk naked with a baby?), All other related questions are opened.
- Who - Dad or Mom - should tell the baby, from where and how did it come about?
- At what age is it best to do this?
- How to protect children from violence - because they are trusting by nature?
- How to help them not to create "difficult" situations (as, for example, the following: a girl of 4-5 years old, when she learns of gender differences, approaches an unfamiliar uncle and asks him where his penis is).
How to protect their childhood from too early development?
So, to solve only one question - to determine for themselves the age of children, to which parents can be naked with them, and leave the rest unavailable - it is impossible.
Society or family?
On the one hand, it is the family that dictates morality and rules of conduct. And no one before loving parents should not engage in sexual education of the child. Decide for the family definitely not worth it.
And on the other hand, if the age of children, to which parents can be naked with them, artificially "reaches out" to early puberty - this is fraught with trouble. As well as the fact that a thirteen-year-old young girl calls a member of "letters". No wonder her friends will probably giggle, and adults - to be surprised.
And although it's still a child in legal and legal norms, in some questions it's better to grow an "academician" in advance than to keep the child in ignorance until the last.
So, both the society and the family mutually influence each other. And no matter how chaste (or vice versa-allowing a lot) nor the customs in the family, the society will "correct" them. As well as on the contrary - even in the most "broken" area there are pure souls of the girl who are sincere in the feelings, do not try "to sell virginity more dearly", etc.
How to avoid developmental abnormalities?
In time to explain the functionality of the sexual sphere, to make it sacred enough, intimate - it means, to save the child. After all, most deviations arise either from excessive prohibitions (punishment for being interested in the structure of the sexual sphere of the opposite sex), or from permissiveness.
And the determining factor here is the age of children, to which parents can be naked with them. From the moment when the child learns the first words, when his vocabulary replenishes - it is necessary to stop the practice of relations with the child - completely or partially sexual (flirting). Yes, he is small and will not understand, but most often it is in this misunderstanding that the causes of tragedies lie.
How to avoid tragedy in a sexual way?
Do not wait for the age of children to whom parents can be naked with them - because sexual trauma can be not only actions against children. It is enough that something incomprehensible happens with them.
The interpretations of what is happening (in the child's understanding) can be different. For example, the norm is to walk naked. Or the fact that an adult male can show her "pussy" to a girl. It is not known, first, how the daughter or son will react when he sees his father and mother naked at a more conscious age, and how this will affect their perception of sexuality.
The only exception to the rule
Parents are highly recommended to wear clothes and not even in their underwear when they are 5-6 years old. That is, from the first clear question "where did I come from?" But the exception is the parent of the same gender and the corresponding situation.
Daughters useful to be next to a naked mother at any age, if it is conditioned by the need - a bath, a shower in the pool. Similarly, sons and fathers. As a rule, this does not bring any influence on the formation of homosexual motivation, as well as wearing not one's clothes. For example, a brother can wear a sister's dress at home without hindrance - this will show his interest in detail and clothes that distinguish boys and girls.
And finally - a little humor
Daughter (4 years), my mother, on the beach e: And why do daddy pants "with gulfikom?" He's an adult, right? And when I grow up, will I have such cowards, too?
Son (5 years), my mother: Look at me! I am Spiderman! (putting on his head pantyhose and pulling them in his arms). MAMA! Get me out of here!
Parents and disguised before the child, and even went together to the bath - washed, of course, naked and together. But when the child began to talk - all the details were told to native and unfamiliar people. What does my mother's hair grow, imagine, between the legs! And Papa has a sausage! Parents did not know what to do with shame. And now all familiar parents are advised to go home at least in shorts