Energy vampires are not afraid, no garlic with an aspen stake, and they never drink blood. Is there really an energy vampire in nature? Or is it sometimes convenient for us to think about this? An energy vampire, who is this?
All around enemies.
If a simple vampire we sometimes see only in the movies, then the energy vampire constantly and everywhere: on the street, at work, at school and often even at home. And to distinguish them by their outward signs is not so simple as it seems for the first time. You can draw energy like a young and beautiful blonde, and a baby. They look like us, they are always among us.
The word energy vampire is more from the people, and not from the field of psychology. Moreover, many psychologists do not recognize such vampires at all, believing that calling people vampires only because they do not like you and tires you, is wrong and illiterate. Other scientists, the existence of energy vampires do not deny, they learn to recognize them among other people and even try to fight them.
To find out such a vampire is very simple: if you communicate with such a person you are overcome by constant yawning, drowsiness, fatigue, irritability, headache - then you are in communication with an energy vampire. Vampires may be your classmate, colleague, boss, favorite boyfriend or even your own child. Sometimes they do not realize how much trouble they brought to surrounding people.
It is very difficult to talk about the sources of such vampires, but scientists say it is not hostile, but acquired ability. Sometimes this leads to some tragedy or a serious illness. He gets used to the fact that surrounding people help him, sympathize, and gradually lose the skill of reproducing his energy, then he reluctantly begins to take it from others. An energy vampire is a person who takes away and drinks energy from other people.
Imaging the victim.
Energy vampires exhaust their sacrifice in word and deed. And not always they deplete their prey, just bringing it to white heat. Each vampire has his own set of various techniques. They can feed on energy when they surround the person with excessive attention and care. The victim quickly gets used to it, and becomes completely dependent on his vampire.
Another way to paralyze the victim is to pretend to be a victim. So, if a person is constantly whining that no one has ever loved him, that the bosses are always scolding, that money is always short of wages, know that this person can be a biological vampire. And the more you persuade him in the opposite, the more damage you will inflict on yourself.
Well, the type!
Energy vampires can be divided into two groups - active and passive. Active vampires themselves always provoke scandals. These are those vampires who constantly step on their feet, try to push their elbows, loudly express their discontent.
Passive - leeches - behave, not so provocative, but, constantly, plagued by their behavior. They always whine, complain about their difficult fate or they start, show off, and sometimes even do not. In general, on their own, they are quiet, but very wordy. A scorpion, another form of the passive like to regale someone else's energy, they love to stalk stealthily when you do not expect it.
Men vampires by nature have a greater capacity for vampirism in personal relationships. With sexual contact with a woman, he absorbs the energy of her self. Sometimes it is the need for such energy that pushes men to betrayal. From the female side, vampirism appears in other forms. For example, a woman expresses her complaints, complains of an ailment, shows outbursts of jealousy.