Often, talking with people, noticed insincerity. Smiles are strained, the topic of conversation is meaningless, the look is empty, the movements and gestures are not natural. Or, active communication leads to rapprochement and trust, afterwards you disclose a couple of your secrets, and then you will find out that your secret is not only yours. He already knows many, and in a more perverted form. After discussing others, we do not get better, discussing the shortcomings of others, we do not get rid of our own. Today I want to disassemble, and duplicity is the norm of behavior, or is triad more relevant ?
Sometimes it becomes interesting to me, what does such a man think, smiling at me in the face. It strikes me in people that the quality behind the back of another person is telling mucks. Why not tell the man himself this in person? Or what's the difference, what kind of person? After all, all people on Earth are not perfect, all have some of their shortcomings, which are filled with positive qualities. Why all this duplicity? Or maybe duplicity has become the norm of behavior ? Or is triplicity more important ? I would call trinity a multiplicity. These are people who have a certain face for all occasions, or a mask. And these masks are a heap.
Duplicity is a lie, hypocrisy, falsity, duplicity, insincerity, and a bunch of unpleasant synonyms. I will not argue that each of us is two-faced. We can say that all people on earth are two-faced, that is, they lie to others. Is it not easier to wear your face, not someone else's mask? After pretending to be a different person, we eventually forget how we really look. And those around us do not know us at all. Sometimes we are sure that "nooo, I do not wear a mask, I'm not two-faced, I'm natural and I never pretend." Or maybe you have already forgotten what you really are? Do we really do not love ourselves so much, that we are afraid of others to show our face? Or are we afraid that others will cause us pain, our naked nature? But every day we receive blows from fate and from people and hide the pain, pulling a smile on his face. Is not this duplicity? Why not show people that it hurts you, and not show their indifference, as if nothing happened? To be honest of course is scary when there are so many dishonest people around you. Maybe, it's time for us all to change slightly for the better?
I have one girlfriend who does not count men for people. As soon as she does not call them: creatures, creatures that are not worthy of me, and generally of female filming and time, dirt, well, etc. Although she has many admirers, she knows how to flirt and flirt, she does it so skillfully that it remains only to be amazed. She smiles at them cute and naively in the face, and when there is no male company nearby, she humiliates them so much that even I get sick ... no, she certainly can and in the face say, but only if this man does not already needed. It is so cynical, but at the same time pretty and open, like an open book like with a simple text that is easy to read, but difficult to understand.
She knows what women friendship is, appreciates and respects. He will never give a grudge. She is a very good person, and maybe when she falls in love, she will change a little and cease to be so cruel to men, but a drop of duplicity in her will always be present, as in all of us, if not in relation to her beloved, then for to the surrounding people, she will always lie a little and pretend like we are all. She's like a kitten, who imagined he was a lion with a big mouth. Mouth, of course, she has a big, only it is the mouth of inquiries, which she skillfully satisfies with the help of men, in return giving only her dazzling smile that causes envy among many of her surrounding girls.
I want to say that we often blame men for being two-faced. And we? Are we not like that? Do not we hide part of the salary from the husband for our personal expenses, and yet manage to bite off a fat piece from his salary? Do not we cute give the man a smart smile and mentally curse him. As we are to them, so are they to us. In general, then in life everything is natural. Forgetting about its disadvantages, we begin to discuss the disadvantages of our dear halves. But have not you thought about digging into yourself, find these disadvantages to fix them, and maybe your man will do the same for you.
There is a good expression "do not judge, and do not be judged". But who are we to judge another person. All of us are equal before God and all of us can make mistakes and be shortcomings. Only God can judge a man for his sins. And disadvantages are people's quality, they should not be judged for. God Himself created us with imperfections. If God does not judge us for them, then what right do we have for judging faults?
For example, if a person died who did not particularly like you, or did not like at all, you will not be happy at his funeral! Only because of respect for the deceased and grieving relatives, you let a tear - is not this called duplicity. But this duplicity is for good. This is called pretense. And after such an example, we can say with certainty that duplicity has become the norm of behavior, this is a character trait. And if a person does not have this quality, then society simply will not take it.