With the primitive system as such, love did not exist at the origin of relations, between them there was formed no more than the desire for procreation, which manifests itself in all biological beings of our planet. This physical attraction was based on simple instincts of paternity and motherhood. Each person expresses his feelings differently, but how to find out: love or deception?
As such definition of the concept of love does not exist in contrast to the concept of deception. Love is of different kinds, from the one that we all get throughout our life - maternal, to love our country, but the most powerful and beautiful form of love, of course, is the love between two lovers. This kind of love we can describe as a kind of strong affection, a passion that drives mad, experiences, and care for the second person of this dual love affair is also important.
At the same time, we often notice that the person we love for us in the world is the part that illuminates our path, even in quarrels, we try not to take offense at each other and rather make up our mind that to continue enjoying these relations in close proximity to our loved one, accepting love and forgiving deception. Often before as such love we feel a feeling that some of us mistakenly believe in for love. This feeling is called love, it can "knock" our head, deprive the mind, we can behave like children and do not understand this because we do not care about our behavior, do not care about someone's thoughts, we are generally no one more interested in except one man, because of which we are so carried away. Moreover, in lovers and loving people there is no such word as I, they show their love union only say - WE.
The second kind of love between two people can be called sexual love. In her, one of the parties can really love, just as passionately and irrepressibly, fluttering in her feelings, and this will be true love for her, while the second partner will see in her no more than the object of sexual desire and consolation of her sexual needs.
Such a love of the second partner can also be called nothing more than a deceit, a deceit of relations, but in the beginning it is necessary to know precisely this love or deception so as not to be mistaken. In such relations, the second character has no attachment to his partner, as a rule, he does not care, by and large, who is with him. While for a truly loving person, this behavior of his half will kill him, because he can not just strangle love, or put out in himself it is a person and understanding of it, it is his feelings, and not a mechanism that is easily controlled by the means of certain levers. In such relationships, quarrels often occur, as a result of which there are grievances that do not cool down for a long time, since it is difficult for a person to recognize the line between love and deceit.
In relations between people, there can be common and at first sight deceptions, but they also sometimes give some ground for reflection. Because of what there are deceptions in the relationship? The main reason for this is that a person is afraid of you, something to tell, this is possible, but why, because you love him, and he you. He is simply afraid of the consequences of this, but going to such an ill-considered step, he does not even think that such a method of getting out of a difficult situation can lead to nothing more than a habit of deceiving his person. Today she did not tell him that she walked a little with her friend, tomorrow for example, what she was trying to do, someone to meet and so in a couple of days she would not say that she was drinking coffee in a restaurant with a new friend, then went to his house. Yes, it's all abstract, but it eventually led to treason and as a conclusion to the rupture of relations. Of course, as it is possible to say about men, deception is something - with what it is necessary to fight at the earliest stages of its appearance, sweep out a filthy broom from your relationship. It is better to tell the truth, yes, you will quarrel a little, quarrel, but without this, and the relationship is nothing, people quarreled, if they love each other, then they reconciled. In the most difficult situations, one should never ask a friend or acquaintance, no matter how you act, you must choose it for yourself, and be responsible for your choice, whatever it turns out you should yourself. Just remember that you cheated once - deceived again, so it is very important to know that cheating and love are two incompatible things.
Everyone can live without love, but such a person will not lose much, he will lose everything. He can not feel that he needs someone, that someone cares about him and waits for him; he also will not be able to feel it himself in relation to another person. It's like a man who never discerned flowers in his life, he did not see how a blossoming flower fascinates with its colors; he could not enjoy music, he did not hear the spring singing of birds, he could not see all the beauty of nature, he lived his whole gray life in vain.