Probably, almost everyone thinks about whether there will be ideal men in their life.
Asking such questions, it is necessary not to forget that everyone has different ideals. Therefore, as far as guys are ideal, judge everyone. But still, probably, there are qualities that everyone wants to see in their chosen one.
So, ideal men should be: smart, beautiful, caring, gentle, with a sense of humor, strong, gallant, understanding, responsible, have a good job, protect and much, much more. And what are men really like?
There are very different categories of guys, but for some reason they all are ideal only relative. For example, there are young people who are called "the soul of the company". They know how to cheer anyone and find an approach to every girl. It's never boring with such a young man. He knows a thousand stories and knows how to say this or that joke in time. In addition, often, these guys are very pretty. And even if such a guy can not be called beautiful, he has such charisma and charisma that it is simply impossible to resist. But many guys of this type have their shortcomings. Often this is lightheadedness. Such guys do not know how to take life seriously. They are a womanizer and treat women, though respectfully, not frivolously. With such a young man it's hard to think about normal relationships. They get married already at a respectable age or do not marry at all. Thanks to the fact that such a guy is very easy on the rise, he often leaves his job or takes a vacation at his own expense to go somewhere else. Therefore, a young man, most often, does not have enough money for anything and he lives from salary to salary, either starving or shikuya. On these guys, girls always pay attention and fall in love with them. There is nothing surprising. A young man always knows how to say compliments, cheer, knows when to give a hand and when to miss a lady forward. Of course, such a guy bribes any girl and she thinks he's perfect. But over time, his minuses are revealed and the lady is disappointed. Every woman needs stability and the feeling that she can rely on someone. And such a man can hardly be called a wall. He, rather, roll the field, which flies in the wind and is driven to different people. With such a man you can be perfectly friends and have fun. But if you want to marry him, then, most likely, very disappointed. Therefore, this category of young people to the ideal can not be attributed.
And there is, for example, another category of guys. Unlike cheerful people and jokers who know how to win love and attention of everyone, these, most often, are silent and do not like big companies. At first glance, it may seem that the guy hates the whole world and behaves disgustingly. Such a young man is simply a shame to show people, because he constantly speaks some strange things and tries to show his negative qualities. Yes, and it looks, most likely, not very good. Therefore, many girls immediately put a cross on this category of young people and do not even try to understand who they really are. But if anyone wants to see what kind of soul this strange guy has, then he will be very surprised. Such young people, in fact, are very sensitive and vulnerable. Such disgusting behavior is their mask, a protective reaction from ill-wishers. That's why many people dislike them. Those who really know such a guy can say with confidence that he is very kind, gentle and caring. It is such a young man wants for the beloved to get the stars from the sky and write poetry. He just needs to be sure that the girl will not laugh at his feelings. If he realizes that he is really loved, he will wear his lady of heart in his arms and do everything to make her happy.
And there is one more category. It includes those guys who just do not carry on their hands ever. Is it only in extreme necessity. They rarely talk about love and feelings in principle. From such a young man it's hard to wait for romance. He will not bring coffee to bed and give times. But it is he who always bothers you to have warm clothes, good food and a decent roof over your head. Such men can not and do not know how to talk about love. Often there is no chivalry in them. But they express their feelings with actions, providing you with a comfortable and peaceful life.
There are also men who behave romantically, and earn a living, but are practically non-emotional. They react to everything very calmly, weigh a hundred times each thought and decision, never rush anywhere and do not react to shouts. With such a man it is very difficult to understand what he thinks and how he relates to the situation.
And there are secretive guys about whom you do not know anything, even if you live with a young man for several years. They show feelings, but they do not open or shower the soul to anyone. They have their own world, in which they are good with themselves. There are very untidy men who are ready to give you gold and diamonds, but they will walk in a stretched T-shirt, and you can not do anything about it.
So, as you can see, every plus has a minus. Therefore, if you are looking for a truly ideal man, stop and look around you. Nearby, there is definitely one whose pluses you will love, and with whose minuses you will reconcile. And when this happens, it will be perfect for you.