The Stone Wall. So we girls are arranged that we need a male support, a shoulder or just a man's patience. Somewhere in the subconsciousness there lives a certainty: no matter what happens (from a blown bulb to a flood), we have a "stone wall" (even if this "wall" is a meter in a cap), for which you can hide. It's good if the family has a father or an older brother or a loved one who will regret and understand. If there are none, and relations with your beloved are not formed, then he comes to the rescue - your best friend, and in fact - your best friend. A familiar guy will listen to you, understand, laugh and calm. And even criticism from his lips in your address will not be perceived with hostility - "After all, he wants the best."
With "your best friend" you have common interests, you are able to have fun and usefully spend time and never disappoint in each other. Well, if so. But still - be careful. After all, as we know, we see what we want to see. He is not a true friend and not a "stone wall", if: you ask for advice from him - he is silent; never first not interested in your affairs and problems; Forgets to congratulate you on your birthday; you always call him first, he also calls only when he needs something (for example, a lecture summary). If all of the above is not about him, you should be congratulated. It really is, your best friend is a familiar guy. In a word, a real friend! A friend who always and everywhere will support you and better than any girlfriends with whom you miss classes will help to choose a gift for your beloved boyfriend. All of your "benefits" from male friendship - it is obvious! And what are the bonuses to him? Your best friend - a boyfriend has significant advantages - he knows everything about you.
Favorable exchange. Guys are good friends with us for many reasons. Firstly, a woman's view of things is interesting to an intelligent man (and we are not friends with stupid people, right?). Secondly, regret, cheer up, feed - it's always, please. It's us, women, we love and we are able. Thirdly, give advice about dating with a girl (what to say, what flowers and gifts to give ) - yes, no question! Appearance correct, style change - we are all a bit stylists and designers! Tell him about the causes of women's whims and advise how they can be neutralized ... So you know your boyfriend, like a girlfriend, very useful. As a result of this "cultural" exchange, you become informed of all the "pitfalls" of relations between the opposite sexes. This will make it possible to reduce the failure on the personal front to zero. But it also happens that your friend guy - your best friend can one day cease to be one: waking up feelings for you will make the Friend vulnerable. And if you, too, are not indifferent to it, do not drive away from you yet not clear feelings - but what if this is real love?