This is what we will talk about in our article "The Statute of the Fund Love the Family of Harmony." Probably, the most important thing in life is to achieve harmony in everything, and first of all, of course, in your family, because this is the most intimate for a person. Mutual love makes the family harmonious, this is one of the first factors of harmony in the family.
But what is true love? And what is it, feelings, emotions or all the same actions? I want to tell you about this in detail, so that you can find harmony while having love. Do you know why I think that love is not feelings and emotions, but deeds? Because when our love is based only on emotions and feelings, then it is selfish and this kind of love can lead you to a dead end in your family relationships.
Always remember that love is long-suffering, charity is not jealous, not proud, does not do evil. True love is always ready to sacrifice yourself for the happiness of another person. If you see in your love nothing more, more selfish, then do not be deceived, this is not true love and the least "wind swaying" such love will blow away.
Be ready always to sacrifice yourself, and such love will bring you harmony in the family. Of course, this applies to both family members, both to the woman and to the man. And if both a woman and a man are ready to sacrifice themselves for the sake of another, it will be real harmony, true love for one another.
I think you will agree with me that the family fund in Russia significantly reduces its moral values. And if literally not long ago, marriages concluded in the 80s still remain strong, then marriages concluded in the 90s and even more so in the 2000s have an increasingly flexible platform and frequent divorces.
Here you can figure out why this happens, you look at those families where wives and husbands or at least one member of the family is willing to sacrifice themselves for the sake of another's happiness and for the sake of preserving the hearth and comfort, then such families are standing. And where we see the attitude to the family, let's say, let's call it: "We create a family to love me together," and that we see there is only further collapse and eventually a divorce.
In conclusion of my article I want to say to everyone, those who are going to not just create a family, but have harmony. No need to put, special emphasis on what you want, look at the needs of the second half, and your second half will look at your needs and that's you, and create harmony in your own family and life.
Try to give more love than to demand in return. And always remember that the family is not a game, but a great work of both, and when entering a new life, do not enter into it with the realization that you can divorce at any time. After all, does the one who builds a house think about how to destroy it? Look to the future with fun, and build it in peace and harmony with each other.
When your future husband makes you an offer, then ask him if he is ready to build a marriage or all he decided to charge you. Ask him whether he is ready not just to use the fact that you will be his wife (to erase to cook to clean), but also to be a full-fledged husband in the family. Take on the responsibilities and be the same gentleman in the family in place, which so claims every man.
After all, the lord not only lays and uses the good, but also works for this so-called good. And cute girls look seriously at the question of marriage, because the decision you have now depends on your entire future life.