So, when is it worth bringing a guy into the house and showing it to your dad and mom. Well, of course, you should not insist on communicating with your family in the first months of your acquaintance. It will look strange and suspicious. Perhaps you do not see anything abnormal in this, but for a guy acquaintance with parents will sound like a transparent hint: now they know you, so you can not get away from me anywhere. That's why, even if you really want, acquaintance with the family is better to postpone for later. Understand that the young man himself does not know what exactly he feels for you and how long your relationship will last. Of course, we can say that this sounds cruel enough, but, nevertheless, truthfully. It's just that girls tend to romanticize everything and hyperbolize. When we get acquainted with a young man and fall in love with him, it seems to us that he feels the same feelings for us and makes far-reaching plans. In fact, everything is far from the way we see through rose-colored glasses of love. Often a young man at the initial stage of relations in general does not think about anything. He just communicates with you, gets used to and tries to understand whether it is worth developing this relationship. If you come up with a proposal to go home, drink tea with your father and mother, he will take it as a violation of the right choice and simply can disappear. Therefore, do not rush, wait until he gets used to you, will become attached and your relationship will really become serious.
It is also desirable to not be the first to show initiative regarding acquaintance with your family. The fact is that when the guy himself talks about meeting Mom and Dad, it will mean that he really takes your relationship seriously. Acquaintance with parents means a lot for guys. They understand that your mother will now hold him responsible, and he becomes not just your boyfriend, but a guy who must protect his beloved and always help her. Therefore, give the guy time so that he himself comes to this idea, and did not go to your house almost under escort. If you meet for a really long time, but the young man does not show initiative, try to talk to him about it carefully. Only do not insist in any way. Just say that you could go to the parents at the weekend, because they have heard so much about him and have long wanted to get acquainted. In case the guy will constantly pretend that he does not understand the hints or refuses directly, talk to him directly and ask him to explain the reasons for this behavior. Perhaps they will really be significant, and you will close this question.
Unfortunately, the reason why a girl does not risk acquainting a guy with her parents may be the family. As they say, we do not choose parents, so we have to put up with their quirks. If you know that your family is odd enough for one reason or another, try to explain this to the guy. But in no case do not hide anything and do not be ashamed. If he loves you, he will accept any and with any parents. Of course, do not be ashamed of your parents, if they are, for example, too simple, or vice versa, cutesy. In any case, this is your family, who wants to know with whom their daughter meets. But in order to protect themselves from the occurrence of various misunderstandings and conflicts, warn the guy about the characteristics of the nature of the mother or father. Of course, maybe you will be a little scared, but remember that nothing is perfect. Therefore, you do not need to think through every second of the evening and prescribe for your boyfriend a script in which his behavior will be painted every minute. Just in general terms, warn him about what not to do, what topics should not be touched and what not to pay attention to. Remember that even if something goes wrong, you can always just walk away. The main thing is not to allow scandals and ugly situations.
There can be a situation when you will worry that the guy will do something wrong and your parents will not approve. In this case, correctly explain to him that some things your family does not approve, so you very much ask him to refrain from those or other remarks or to behave a little differently. In no case do not order the guy and do not drill him. If you do this, then he will get the impression that you are ashamed of his present and want to do what your parents will like. Agree, such thoughts are unpleasant for any person.
In any case, you need to improvise in every situation. Therefore, starting to meet with a guy, do not count when exactly you will acquaint him with his parents. Most likely, you just understand that this man is no longer just a nice guy with whom he likes to spend time, but something more, a part of your family. And he, in turn, will feel that he wants to know those people who raised you and taught you to be just that. That's when the perfect time will come for a guy to meet your parents.