Existing types of relationships between guys and girls always at some time rest on the concept of friendship - and then either remain in it, or develop into serious relationships, or break up, or become a kind of symbiosis of friendship and romance. Many argue about whether a man and a woman can be friends. Of course, they can. But only in the case when they do not have any sexual attraction to each other. Agree, because it is so that when you get acquainted with a guy, you know: he's like a brother to me. Any idea that he could become something more, is irritating and even disgusting. This kind of friendship, most likely, will last a lifetime and not peretechet into something more. And the lack of attraction does not mean that the young man is unsympathetic or behaves like a girl. Simply, in our life sometimes there are people who are absolutely not our type. But at the same time, they are spiritually close to us. That's when this feeling of brotherhood, spiritual kinship, which never develops into a physical craving, arises. Unfortunately, not all women are lucky with this. Some do not meet these guys, and the other guys just do not perceive as a friend. In fact, the friendship between a guy and a girl is a great gift of fate. It's just that someone presents these gifts as from a cornucopia, and someone almost does not receive them, that's why he does not believe that this can be.
If a guy and a girl are really friends, their relationship can be stronger than between two friends, girlfriends, or even a couple. Simply, they do not see each other in competition and they have nothing to share. In addition, guys who are used to always keep a brand in a male company, before their best friend can remove the mask and behave sincerely, for which they are very grateful. And the girls, in turn, can always ask advice about other members of the stronger sex. With friends, they often talk about things that girls can not tell. It just happens that the girlfriend, often, understands more and makes fewer claims. So it turned out that we are used to idealizing our beloved guys, so we try to change them, adjust them to the ideal. But the best friends perceive everything as they are. That is why friends can be trusted with all sorts of secret secrets, ask advice and always listen to her opinion. Girls also treat their friends. Such attitudes, most often, are the most ideal kind of friendship, since there is no male bragging and feminine envy. In this friendship, everyone remains what he really is, rather than trying to show to a friend that he is better, smarter or more beautiful. If friends are heterosexual, they are more equal than ever, because each of them is better in their own way and they simply do not have any sense to boast and compete. Friendship in this form is an excellent relationship and interaction between the representatives of different sexes.
But, in addition to friendship in its pure form, there is also friendship with privileges. In such relationships, friendship is complemented by sex. In this case, people have physical attraction to each other, but they do not have enough common interests and views. Or, some of them just love and choose such relationships to get at least an illusion.
Often, such friends still have a lot in common, but they do not show it in public as easily and freely as ordinary friends. Basically, such comrades-lovers pretend that between them there is nothing but friendship. Of course, they understand that it's useless to hide, but they still continue to play their roles. In such relationships, the main thing is not to hurt someone. If both the traction is only at the physical level, then everything is in order. Such friends can play football in the daytime, and have sex at night and it will be for them in the order of things. If someone from such a couple finds a guy or girlfriend for himself, then the second person will sincerely be pleased for him and become an ordinary friend.
Worse, when one of the friends loves the second. In this case, he or she only plays the role of just a friend, and, often, this person does so not at his own will, but because the beloved is so necessary.
If you talk about someone you love, then he can go for such a friendship, because he really sympathizes with his girlfriend, but does not like, from the usual despair or boredom. Often, this friendship ends in different ways.
The first option - someone finds true love. In this case, the second begins to suffer and suffer and try to bring everything back. But since there is nothing to return, the tortures become even stronger. This is not surprising, because the illusion is broken, and, now, it is necessary to live with the realization that the person has deceived himself. In such cases, communication ceases or is reduced to a minimum. Perhaps, of course, not forever, but for that period, while the lover does not calm down, and the feelings will not cool down.
The second option is that love passes in the process of such friendship. In this case, the relationship goes on in the same form, but no one suffers any more, or, they stop and people become just friends. Ordinary friendly relationships are quite possible after sex. The main thing is that no one should feel romantic feelings for each other.
The third option is, after all, is love. In this case, a person who insisted on friendship still recognizes that he has feelings. Perhaps they were with him initially, but he could not admit to himself, his friend, go friend, in general, before all. Such cases are, and often enough. People hide behind sex to hide the desire to build a normal relationship. Of course, this option is the most ideal and acceptable for both sides.
So, we can conclude that there are different types of relationships between guys and girls. It can be pure friendship, pure love and some attraction that hovers between these concepts. It is this feeling that is the most controversial and makes you wonder if there is love without friendship, and friendship without love.