There are quite a few reasons why this case takes place. Modern people believe that marriage is "the next business" and there is no need to hurry with this matter. Young people prefer to live together out of wedlock in order to be convinced of the correctness of their decision and choice. And after the birth of the child, the crucial moment comes when two people begin to perceive all the obligations that have fallen upon them with the appearance of a small person. That's just at this moment and there is a real test of feelings. And, as a rule, love between young parents fades into the background with a noticeable fading of passion. With the advent of a new member of this cell of society, certain worries and troubles arise, which affects the relationship between lovers.
Love and the extramarital birth of a child are not illegal. The state does not oblige young people to marry to create a family. A newborn person does not care whether there is a registration in the passport from his parents. It is important that this little man is surrounded by loving people, he is coveted and loved, he does not need anything more. By mutual agreement the newly made parents draw up the first documents of the baby. And such moments as the surname and patronymic are again decided by mutual agreement between the parents.
In some countries, people prefer an open relationship, and do not accept a common surname at all. Or they have several names, in general, time and fashion impose their imprint on views and on family life. In my opinion, the main thing is that the rights of the child should not be infringed. Whatever decision the parents have not taken, it must necessarily be considered and positive for the child.
We are responsible for our children and their future, therefore, the maximum care for moral and spiritual upbringing gives us the opportunity to raise a decent generation. And the love of parents and positive relationships in the family necessarily give "good results." After all, children like a sponge, perceive the surrounding atmosphere, absorbing all that is happening, and give for granted. Consequently, the child should receive a positive charge from the parents' communication with him and feel the kind and warm relations between the parents.
After the birth of a child out of wedlock, the "birth" of a new love - the love of the baby. And, consequently, a rethinking of life and relations between young parents should occur.
As a rule, the birth of a child is a deliberate and deliberate act. The consequence of it, usually, is the conclusion of marriage. Although, to get the title of "mom" and "dad" is absolutely not necessary. Binding relations with the seal of the registry office, the young receive the official status of the family. But the birth of a joint child is the strongest "seal" in the world. And, as it were, did not work out, the relationship between his parents, their status of "parent" they will not lose ever. Of course, I would like to wish all young couples who are married or living together before thinking about the birth of a child to seriously think about and assess their readiness for such a serious step. And do not forget that when we produce offspring, we bear full responsibility for it.