For some reason it seems to men that we, women, live much easier and easier than them. We do not have to go "kill a mammoth", and then drag it into the family, we do not need to be strong and cruel, and many more such "women do not have to be" ... Maybe they are right. But definitely not in all. Many modern women earn money on a par with men, many occupy quite, it would seem, not women's positions. The society dictates its rules for both women and men.
While still a girl to many of us, parents instilled that model of the woman's behavior in which they themselves grew up, but time does not stand still, everything moves in front and now not every woman will agree to be a housewife and about to wait for her husband from work to feed the tasty supper and put him to bed. Now a woman wants for herself more freedom of action, a woman striving for independence, being a woman in the modern world means being an independent person. And it's not surprising: from the pages of magazines we are looking at beautiful, elegant successful faces, on the blue screen we also see how women on their own have achieved great success in business, have become well-known and respected personalities. And at least once in life, but each of us asked ourselves the question: "And what makes me worse? I'm also a woman. I too can do it. "And we go to work with our heads, we try to succeed, to prove to the partners around us that we are women are also worthy of attention, that we good employees and our proposals can also be worthwhile. At work, we forget about our personality. We often turn into asexual beings who simply blindly move towards their goal. But you want to be a woman ... I want you to be appreciated just like that. In addition, the work of a successful woman takes almost all free time. And, frankly, finding a stronger partner is very difficult. And we, women, are looking for. Often we create ideals, and then we blame all men for the fact that none "satisfies the parameters." We suffer, we experience. Sometimes we start creating complexes for ourselves, or we simply find them in ourselves because of a lack of understanding and lack of that strong shoulder next to each other. And here it begins ... Digging in yourself, where, what did not, why, etc. etc.
But here comes happiness in His face, and we forget all bad thoughts, all our grievances to the whole male sex and give ourselves completely to a heady feeling, we become a real woman. Well, or we try to surrender to him as work permits. Then I want stability in the modern world - the family. And the harmony in the family, as you know, depends entirely on the woman. A maternal instinct? No, this is a wonderful state - motherhood, but we women are not afraid to become mothers often, whereas men are sometimes very frightened of questions about a child ... But it's a very strong and serious step to make a decision about the birth of a child. And not only men do it.
It's wonderful when everything develops and after a successful job a woman can head into the family with a head, give birth to children, then return to her work duties. It's perfect. But our society does not tolerate ideals ... And often a woman (and if she is young and still with a child) is very difficult to find a decent job. Discrimination? Yes. And most men recognize this, but nothing of these confessions does not change. And after all, among other things, no one has abolished those duties of a woman who was "absorbed" by our parents. And a real woman in the modern world has to live "on two fronts."
So it turns out that we are fighting for a place under the sun with all our might that we want to be happy and give happiness to our relatives and this is how hard it is given ... But anyway, ask me if I would like to be born a man, I will answer "No!" Woman - it's fine!
Being a real woman - no matter how easy or hard it was - means being a beautiful flower in this life. And if a real man cares for this flower, then it's not at all difficult for a woman to be!