In life there are many myths that concern single women. So let's figure out what, really, and that's just the fruit of someone's imagination.
Myth number 1 - "no" career.
Probably, in the modern world there are few women who would see only children, family and way of life in their life goals. Especially if the woman while alone. The desire to reach the heights of the career ladder, for women is as natural as for men. Especially if a woman does not need to rush home, sit with the children on sick leave, and surround with the care of her husband. She can afford it completely. Give my favorite business. So if there is an opportunity, why not use it. Usually, as practice shows, from single women get good and demanding bosses, and high-level specialists.
And our life is such that few of the women manage to build a successful career at the same time, to be an exemplary wife and a caring mother. So often you have to choose.
Such a difficult choice for women is yet to be made at a fairly young age. This happens in different ways, but the middle figure is called 16 years. Then she decides to be her whole life "like a stone wall," or push this "wall" for her own personal success and self-realization.
If a woman chooses the first, then later, she will try to realize her ambitions in the success of children. Or vice versa, after the advent of children into an independent life, begins to re-think of their aspirations, desires and realize them. Of course, there is no question of any career here.
A single woman in this regard has many advantages. The main thing is that it would not be embarrassed by the temporary position of the "loner". But there is a type of women who, until old age, never regretted that they gave their preference in favor of work.
How to live - the choice is very individual.
Myth number 2 "not just one mind."
Especially among men it is considered that if a woman is beautiful, then she is not a strong woman. And if the beauty is added and the success in the work, then it really smells fried. But it's time to smash all these fictions. Yes, the system of thinking of women, including the notorious female logic, often differs from the strict rationality of men. But this still gives grounds to assert about the difference in mental abilities. Similarly, in some issues a woman can give men a head start, for example, possessing exceptional intuition, and the ability to trust her.
Always the most gossip and intrigue revolves around the woman - the boss, especially if she is alone. Remember only all the famous film "the irony of love ...". In such cases, incredible stories about a woman can be written about, the culmination of which will necessarily be a gossip about her loneliness. Also envious, namely, they spread rumors, there can often be attributed links to higher authorities, and much more.
But here is the paradox of the whole situation, for some reason people need to create the picture they want to see for one reason or another, but it's impossible to really assess the situation.
Myth number 3 "business is not women's handiwork."
Maybe 50 years ago it was so. But today a single woman in business is not a new concept, and is perceived very calmly. A more correct formulation of the meaning of this statement can be conveyed in such a way that a woman in business is more dependent on others. And its success is directly proportional to the ability of partners and employees to take its position for granted without referring to the gender factor. This rule of ethics is most often violated in business. Similarly, sometimes a special distrust can be caused by the career of a single woman. Many believe that if a person can not build a personal relationship, then the partners will not be of any use. Although again, this is only a subjective opinion of the units, which does not care much about the successful business strategy aimed at the result.
It should also be borne in mind that, usually, to achieve a certain result, women have to make great sacrifices and make maximum efforts on the part of the path where men usually do not have any difficulty.
Myth number 4 "and in all to blame for ambition."
Similarly, when it comes to the career of a woman who is lonely, one can stumble upon a lot of reasons and assumptions why, nevertheless, a young energetic, beautiful woman still chose an office and a favorite business, and not a house, children and her husband. This can be attributed to unhappy love, and inflated demands, and even to invent stories about some strange things that manifest themselves only outside of work. Like, comes home, and once the princess turns into a frog, that's the peasants and run.
The most common reason is women's ambitions, especially if she was able to achieve something. It is no longer of interest to average men, on average posts. She needs to have a number of people who will excel her. All this in order to again feel like a woman. Therefore, most of the suitors are immediately eliminated, and those who could take a worthy place in her life, do not want to see next to themselves in some way a competitor.
So the myth about ambition can be considered one of the few that is confirmed in practice.