Whims and frequent change of moods are a common occurrence for kids 3-5 years old. At this age the child's psyche is still unstable and subject to the slightest changes in the environment. That is why parents should learn the methods of productive termination of hysterics of their own child in advance. First of all, patience. An even tone of voice and composure are the best weapon in the fight against manifestations of childish imbalance. In addition, the baby, feeling the peace of mom or dad, unwittingly reduces the level of protest. Tolerance is another important skill. Shouts, rudeness, corporal punishment can not only intensify the hysteria, but also seriously affect the child's mental stability.
Communication is the guarantee of an excellent result. A detailed dialogue with precise questions will help to find out the cause of child arousal, aggression or depression. Do not interrupt the baby or finish the answer for him - he must say that he is nervous. Even if it takes a lot of time. Such tactics are especially effective, because it allows not only to stop, but also to prevent further vagaries.
Calm refusal at whims - reasonable parental practice
Switching the child's attention to games, reading or active activities will help cope with the hysteria
Indulging in whims - under a categorical prohibition: a kid should not get what he wants after each scream
The unanimous position of both parents will strengthen their authority in the eyes of the child