Dissatisfaction in sex can be a big problem in life. Over time, a woman becomes tense or even aggressive, harsh and unhappy. The mental state of this lady is understandable. Her body asks about what she does not get to the full - detente. Satisfied with sex woman, on the contrary, always cheerful and cheerful. A lot of families happily married due to exclusively sex, the quality of which suits both.
Many women believe that her "fireworks" in bed completely depends on the "professionalism" of the partner. Unfortunately, this is a deep delusion, and it's not fair to shift everything to the man's shoulders. But what can a woman do then? For your own happiness and pleasure - everything!
Let's see why the expected discharge does not come. There can be many reasons. First, physiological. Fatigue, nervous tension, the phase of the menstrual cycle, the degree of excitation before sexual intercourse, etc. - all this can influence the presence of orgasm or its absence. I must say that the initial excitement of a woman takes about 40 minutes, the female body is simply not able to experience orgasm before this time. At the same time, some men are able to relieve their stress in 15 minutes, and that's enough for them. Many women, even after living for a couple of years, do not dare to tell the beloved that they do not experience the whole beauty of the extravaganza of sex. As we were taught to talk in childhood, it is not good to deceive, therefore, we must tell you about what concerns you, your partner. The degree of trust, frankness and intimacy is an important aspect in the relationship. If he really loves you, he is interested in the problem, accordingly, just as you want to solve it. Of course, it may not be pleasant for him, that you have been silent for so long or even imitated an orgasm (most women commit this sin, and to their own detriment). But your sincerity will only make you closer. And if he is categorically not satisfied with the topic of the conversation, you should think about why you need such a man?
Secondly, the problem can lie in the plane of psychology and state of mind. Very important can be the ability to adjust to a partner, to give first of all the pleasure to him, and not to get stuck on his finishing ribbon. Perhaps, a frank conversation is necessary, during which secret complexes or fears will open. It may be that a woman is basically modest and, as a result, clamped. Maybe just too many thoughts during the "responsible process". This especially applies to the initial stage of the relationship. A woman wants to like, beautifully undress, lie down and so on, she worries about how her figure corresponds to the standards of beauty, because she spends so much time and effort to improve herself. And it's important to relax and give yourself completely to your feelings and passion, which led you to bed. After all, if it comes to sex, then you already like your partner. Remember the movie "The Bridget Jones Diary," the moment when he discovers on her "panties" of enormous size. He did not run away, did not get scared, on the contrary it brought the heroes together, and for him personally this became another highlight in the girl he fell in love with.
And finally, the third of the most important aspects of satisfaction in sex, both women and men, is also a myth that the quality of sex depends on technology. The myth that the knowledge of the anatomy of the male and female body, the knowledge of erogenous zones and points, uniquely provides the desired result. This is a very strong delusion, since sex in the first place is an intimate affinity, an act of self-disclosure, mutual trust, acceptance of a partner and his body. If you look at sex purely from a technical point of view, you can destroy spiritual closeness, destroy the atmosphere of tenderness and love.
Dissatisfaction of a woman in sex, what to do? In pairs where there is no harmony in sex, sooner or later conflicts occur. Accumulation of aggression, resentment, anger is accumulating. Causes are made to justify such behavior, from this even more conflicts and as a result a huge tangle of mutual claims. Someone copes with this himself, someone turns to a specialist - a psychologist, a sexologist, etc. If even after frank conversations, complete relaxation and release of the head from unnecessary thoughts, the desired result does not work for a long time, maybe it's not your destiny? You do not need to fixate on a man who does not fit you in bed, a man who can only take into account his personal needs and desires. Such a man, at least you are not worthy. And certainly he was not destined for you by fate.