The guy worries that he is not your first.
He must necessarily know all the details of your former relationship, even intimate, let their problems solve their own problems.
Your actions. Before sobbing before him, like the penitent Mary Magdalene, try to understand what makes him act like that. He is unsure of himself, and to the point that even your former perceives him as a rival. It seems to him that you compare him with that, another, and not in his favor, and he has problems in sex. He is afraid that you will meet with him to forget his former, and suffer from these fictitious problems. The main thing is not to indulge him and in any case not to report the details of communication, immediately stating that this topic is taboo for him.
Your innocence.
You love him so much that she decided: he will be your first man. But the young man, it turns out, is more frightened of such a prospect, than pleases.
Your actions. For the first time you will make love and expect from the partner of attention and delicacy. In this situation, he is afraid to disappoint you, this is one of the main problems of men in sex. Talk to him: explain why you decide on this step with him, once again say that you trust him. These conversations will help him relax.
Your activity.
In the head of the guys is a stereotype: he is a hunter, and he needs to conquer you. Therefore, when a girl takes the initiative in sex, a young man may get scared. It seems to him that he is deprived of the right to conquer.
Your actions. Be discreet. Let him take the initiative. Do not rush to rush the guy around his neck, because he may have problems in sex. While walking, pretend to stumble, he will surely pick you up and embrace you. After that, you will only have to kiss, and ...
Physiology.
After watching an erotic movie or a photo session in glossy magazines, your boyfriend is sure: there are girls walking along the streets with perfect make-up and amazing forms, always ready to make love. When your boyfriend comes across an ordinary life, he can have a real shock, and this will lead to problems in sex.
Your actions. Carefully look after yourself: depilation, manicure, beautiful hair, skin. Minor flaws in the figure are corrected with the help of yoga or belly dancing. But before you rush to cultivate because of a moody guy, think, do you want to see a man next to you, fixated on magazine covers and men's problems?
Julia Sobolevskaya , specially for the site