Love is a very subtle feeling , which must always be cherished and nourished, with encounters, kisses, embraces. At such a young age, people are not loved for anything, but simply because they are. A loved one is near, and everything else is not important. But as usually happens in life, everything good, ever ends. The time of separation, when it is necessary to leave for studies or examinations, will such love stand such a test. "Well-wishers", the envy of which makes you invent different gossip and sow discord. Trust, is it, or is it easier to check the "unreliable" half. Mutual relations, which need to yield and respect each other, will each of them at any time be able to cross through their pride and go to a meeting.
So many "buts" that youthful souls can not overcome so many obstacles, and find a way out. Only people who really love will be able to withstand all the tests. But it is so difficult to resist the closest people, parents, because they are dissatisfied with the progress in school or university, and blame it on him (her). And it seems that everything is against. Against my happiness, love. From this sweet pool only two exits ..
The first, to accept and wait for the child to outgrow, calm down. Because in most cases this is a simple love. Over time, feelings will cool down, and a "better" version may appear. And then life will unfold in another direction, but with the same outcome. So it will be until the teenager grows up. Each person has this period differently, therefore it is difficult to say specifically. But parents should see a change in their child. His thoughts will become more reasonable. Passions will pass, and the time of love will come.
The second way out of this situation is more tragic. Parental prohibitions, secret meetings, so can not last a long time. Some adolescents with a weak nervous system, accept any kind of prohibitions in bayonets. They believe that they infringe on their rights. And because of their youthful maximalism, they are ready for anything, only to break the barrier of misunderstanding at any cost. And for the sake of their love, as they think at the moment, they go on suicide. This is just a fleeting desire, but if you succumb to it, you can not return anything. The desire to prove my love now, and then, I'm sure, if such children were alive and lived to mature age, they would remember "these" their thoughts with a smile. And so it is very important not to allow this. Take care and listen to your children. Give them the opportunity to be adults, make their own decisions. But just be sure to talk, find a common language.
Love is a complex feeling . It is difficult to understand. Even more difficult to accept is that children also have such adult relationships. But time flies, and they grow up. And the parental duty is always to be close at a difficult moment. To support, to console, to prompt. But do not lock in a cage and think that it will be better. Simply together to survive the difficult moments, and after the expiration of time with warmth together remember and laugh at the first feelings.