When trouble comes from all sides, when the sun is at night
Will not he see, rush to help?
After all, he can not eat and sleep when suddenly!
But ... if a friend should be called - it is hardly a friend ...
Vatulko Victoria
When asked whether there is friendship between women, you can confidently answer that there is. Many girls say that for them a lot of women's friendship means: she's like a sister to me, they argue their answer. But on what is it holding and what is its duration? Let's figure it out.
It begins with the fact that friendship, the concept of individual. Men have a special friendship, at times, if a friend is ill, they are ready to cross even their soul mate. For a woman, on the contrary, in the first place is the beloved man. For her, the house, family, relationship with loved one is more important. And if a friend somehow does not look at her lover, then she has all chances to become an ex-girlfriend. And here it's not even about jealousy, but in envy, because in the depths of the soul every woman compares herself with a girlfriend and wants to always surpass her. When this does not happen, then different quarrels begin on trifles and from the best friend it turns into the most evil enemy. This is all despite the fact that every woman wants to attract the attention of a man, and if this is the husband of a best friend, then the excitement appears double.Similarly, the quality of female friendship depends on what influenced its occurrence. If a woman chooses a friend for her soul, so that she understands her inner world, and if she is not mistaken in the choice, then we can safely say that these women will become best friends. In this case, friendship may be interrupted due to a change in the character of one of the girlfriends. Also, a woman can choose a girlfriend for comparison, to better look at its background. This friendship, as a rule, does not last long. After all, women very much feel the falsity of a friend, but more often they do not talk about it directly, but start to take revenge in return, spread bad rumors and give secrets.
For most women, after marriage, less and less time remains for girlfriends. And while the girlfriend is not married, it's hard for her to understand the other. As a result, friendship weakens. Therefore, marriage is another reason why female friendship is lost. And not only disappears! She turns into jealousy, because, of course, every woman wants a family, a loving husband and children. It turns out that a girlfriend now can not give the same amount of time to another girlfriend and, of course, the last one starts to anger. She begins to be jealous and she is tormented only by the question "Why does she have a beloved man, but I do not? What is she better than me? ". And in this situation, it will be good if she does not become her husband's mistress. After all, this is a fairly common phenomenon, when the best friend becomes a mistress of her husband.
In fact, every person has a different character. And even if it seems that the girlfriend is a soul, you need to be on your guard, because everything in life is changing. But this should not be afraid, because there is nothing eternal. Friendship can be described as a quote from the Master and Margarita: "Something must certainly happen, because it does not happen that anything lasts forever."
Not for nothing because men say that there is no female friendship. Maybe so, but men have a different view of friendship, this has already been mentioned above. And have you seen at least one woman who, in the middle of the night, will throw a suddenly ill child and rush to save her friend, whom the next guy threw? That's the same! Although, of course, there are always exceptions.
And the fact that always one girlfriend surpasses another? Whether in terms of appearance, or social status, or simply in spiritual qualities. Yes, all have their shortcomings, but what kind of a friend is she when she can easily recall the situation of the second publicly? And such cases, by the way, occur quite often.
How much controversy has not been waged, about the friendship between women, you can be completely confident that it exists. Yes, of course, I want to believe in it. Just need to find the right person - kind, sincere and with pure thoughts. Such people exist, and friendship with them will not be hampered by family, work and beauty. Simply, it is multi-faceted and completely beyond logic. But still it is.