The mystery and inexplicability of masculine behavior is, as you know, an absolutely inexplicable fact that it is very difficult for women to understand. To fall into depression, to torment yourself from within with various problems and thoughts about them, as it turns out at all, and not a woman's prerogative. Believe me, men suffer this much more often. Simply, by their constitution, they do not express it in public, without shouting to the left and to the right, that here, they say, I have a black streak in my life and what I should do with it. They are secretive, to the best of their emotions and feelings. Which is much worse. After all, having discovered your inner world and talking about what troubles us is much easier than hiding it all in the depths of yourself and trying to live like this. Men are not at all inclined to express their emotions, which entails such a sad outcome for them. To be a real man and never complain about their problems, is laid down, in every male representative, as a solid foundation, in their lives. Therefore, the main credo of every peasant, is, to be a strong spirit, independent, worthy to accept all life's troubles and always to restrain their discontent and emotions. And, for this reason, he always tries with all his might to match this image, carrying all the negative inside and not having to break out to him. This is a male stereotype and nothing can be done about it, it remains only for us women to fight against this. He would have wanted to change something himself, but he simply can not solve it himself, afraid to humiliate his male "I". And for all your attempts, to extract from him the true cause, his strange behavior, they are, very often, limited to a simple and correct explanation in the form that, they say, they got confused in themselves and their feelings. And, nevertheless, if a man says that he is entangled in life, do not leave him alone with his problems. No matter how it was, try to talk to him and, maybe in the end, help him in some way, in the moral sense of the word.
Having acted on the path of struggle against his entanglement and uncertainty in life, the fact that at the same time you will have a high emotional wall will not be ruled out. Which in a few seconds, erect, directly, the man himself. He will try, with the help of this wall, to fence himself off from the whole world and your help including. He does not like when a woman tries to get into his soul and in the best way, in the name of avoiding it, considers "escape from the ship". It is worth it, to know that many men, with a marked dislike, perceive any advice from the female side. This is all due to the fact that the advice that we give them, in their psychological perception, is regarded as nothing more than mockery and condemnation. So, in any case, do not impose your advice on him, but offer them, as if, quite accidentally, and by the way. The main thing is to set a clear picture of your conversation before you, do not ask questions and just let it speak out. Men love grateful listeners, and that is why, your chances of finding out, to the deafness of his soul, and to find out what is hidden there, will greatly increase.
But first, to prepare you for the role of a male psychologist, let's briefly review the main reasons that knock a man out of his habitual life-track.
All the peasants, so that their bad has not overtaken in life, in their male psychology are prone to painful experiences. Instead of having everything sorted out, if not by deed, then at least by word. They torment themselves for almost everything that happens around them. Whether it's work, family, friends or just a new lost love. Take a lot at your own expense - this is their most popular counter. And it can be explained by that. That he, a real man, takes too much on himself. Thinking that everything is under his responsibility, and if anything goes out of control. He blames himself, exclusively himself, that he could not, this is all to keep within certain limits. He tries to find out where he still made a mistake and, at what point, lost his vigilant control. In a word, he was simply tired of constant responsibility.
Still, the reasons can be his insolvency as a man. Financial instability, dissatisfaction with oneself, not the realization of the plans and tasks set before them, and most importantly, the onset of a black line on the love front. As for the last reason, it is the most common and stands above all the rest. It includes many aspects, because of which the man is simply confused, not having understood his feelings and desires. This may be his fatigue from a long relationship, a sudden love for another woman or just an imaginary feeling that this is love. Here the man, more than ever, shaves his head in the whirlwind of this love triangle, trying to decide who is really dear to him and who he wants to stay with. Here we also refer to the fact that he simply began to doubt his choice, being near to you and at all can not answer for himself the question: "Are you really the person with whom he wants to live his whole life?". Or maybe it's just that, no matter how bitter it sounds, you fall out of love. Or just thinking about a small pause in your relationship.
If a man says that he is entangled in life, and you want to help him and at the same time relieve himself of agonizing torments about the prevailing uncertainty, then do not press him. And just talking to him, give him time to see if he can figure it out or help him in this. Together, as you know, all problems seem like a silly trifle. Do not push and do not push him when he makes the final decision, it still will not speed up the outcome of his decision. And most importantly, whatever he was, take it for granted.