The rival. How to behave with her

If another girl has flashed on the horizon and your young man has become interested in her, then it is urgent to take action. To begin with, you need to decide whether everything is really so scary or if you're fantasizing.


A real threat. She is beautiful, slim, smart. Moreover, she is sincerely interested in, say, motorcycles, from which your MCH is crazy. While they endlessly correspond on the Internet about new models and the opening of the motor season, do you burn with jealousy? Try to learn as much as possible about his hobby. If he is with you, then he loves. It remains to show that you are ready to respect his interests with respect, even if you have expressed only a significant "nonsense" about them before.

A loyal friend . There is nothing to worry about, that one night a week your boyfriend does not hold a fence, but with his friends. But not in the case if this friend is a girl. Use the tactics of a retaliatory strike. Tell your boyfriend that you're going to go visit your best and lonely friend to another city. Rare guy indifferent to take such far-reaching plans. Be sure, the next couple of months you'll even go to your hen-parties together.

Secret agent . It is not excluded that she recently broke up with the guy and just misses, the atwas the beautiful prince successfully turned up by the arm on the way to the library or a polite person helped convey the heavy bag to the elevator. If you know her well enough, politely ask to stay away from your boyfriend and find yourself another toy. If not, then wait and wait. Hopefully, it will soon be over, otherwise your boyfriend and you are in for a serious conversation.

Classmate or classmate. The wording is not so important when it comes to the girl of the German, with whom he sees five times a week. Try to find out how he treats kney. And if she is just a good friend for him, who can write lectures, calm down. Even if she is crazy about him, then business relations will not go down. The main thing is to see that he does not write off lectures too often. There is little that can arise on the ground of a common love for learning.

Insidious seducer . Its purpose is to annoy you, not to conquer it. Than you hurt her - this is another question. Remember, maybe you once took her away from her boyfriend or did not give her a homework on mathematics. In any case, it's time to correct the mistakes of the past. The best way is to apologize. Can not you step over yourself? Then relax, because if you have a serious and strong relationship with MCH, no stupid girlish disassembly will not prevent you from being together.

It's possible that this is a brand new girl on the courses or just in your company. It's natural that all the guys immediately start to take an interest in it, but this is normal for this situation. Just in case try to change your shoes to beautiful shoes, and the standard tail for luxurious curls, and as if by magic, this time you'll be in the role-playing room, and your MCH will only look at you all evening. Do not be afraid to experiment with the images, surprise your boyfriend more often.

Secret admirer . It is not very beautiful, not very bright, and it is more suitable for the definition of "gray mouse". However, such nondescript rivals sometimes turn out to be the most dangerous. Do not dismiss it completely, be vigilant, try to point the MCH to its shortcomings. For example, alone with his own boyfriend sympathize with the admirer, they say, such an adult girl, and confuses the air conditioner with a carburetor. Turn on a sense of humor.

Unrequited . It seems that your boy fell in love with the one in whose direction he does not even look. But is this a rival? Remember yourself in the sixth grade, when you sighed post-school students, and sympathize with her. Unrequited love is always very heavy, but it rarely lasts longer than a couple of months. But this time do not relax. Remember that Onegin fell in love with Tatiana, when she irrevocably refused to reciprocate. So control the situation, if, of course, you need it.