Female loneliness and its causes

You gradually began to notice that you became lonely, you are sad at heart, there's no one to even talk to and share your impressions. But what's the matter? Why did it happen? After all, it seemed that everything was going as it should be. Let's together find the possible reasons for your loneliness. Alas, many women are familiar with the problem of loneliness. They were either never married or divorced and raise a child without a father and do not even find time to meet with men ... These are sad facts, as a woman who has been deprived of support and male affection suffers both physically and psychologically. According to observations of gynecologists, women who do not have an intimate life suffer from hormonal disorders, malignant or benign formations in the genital area. And about irritability and to speak it is not necessary, it is visible on your behavior - being nervous and malicious, you push people away from you.

Why is there a growing number of single women who have not been able to meet their soul mate? Some are convinced that men are much smaller, and those that are do not suit because of bad habits. So it turns out that you are looking for an ideal man, so that he can cook dinner, and met with work, and even gave flowers without a reason. Do not need to be so naive, take off the rose-colored glasses, because there are no ideal people. You can search for all your life, but you can not find it, and then in your old age you regret about lost time.

You do not understand why everything is one, and nothing else, because you have everything with you: beauty, intelligence, higher education, excellent work, but you do not have any luck with the cavaliers? And you look at some ladies, as they say, "no faces, no skin," no special intelligence and money, and the crowd is crowded. "Slowly but surely, envy and misunderstanding begins to swallow you:" What's wrong with me ?! "

Often, single women are frequent clients of fortunetellers and psychics. But if that did not help? What, then, should be done? First of all, you need to understand the reasons for your loneliness.

The first and most important reason is the woman's own fear, so strong and subconscious that she is frightened of a close relationship with a man. It is an unconscious fear coming from childhood. If your mother kept repeating to you that all the peasants are the same and from them only troubles, then in her youth such a girl will be panic-stricken by the male, because he is associated as potentially dangerous and it is better to stay away from him. Therefore, the woman does everything, and absolutely unconsciously, not to meet with a man, to break all relations with him and remain alone. After all, it seems to you that it's calmer ...

The second reason is high visions of family life and very high demands on your chosen one. As a rule, this variant is most common among women who were raised in a family without a father. Their ideal version of a man emerges from films or novels about love. That's why an ordinary man is perceived by a woman as a man with a bunch of shortcomings. Such women unknowingly compare their men to a fictional character, and eventually become disappointed.

There are women who, on the contrary, really look at their second half, taking all its advantages and disadvantages. They quite consciously choose such a man, but do not want to sacrifice anything for the sake of family happiness. For them, independence, career and monetary prosperity come first.

Carefully analyze your failures, identify all possible causes and try to avoid them. Change your attitude to everything that happens - do not be uncomfortable with your loneliness, but enjoy it! Tell yourself: "Well, when will I still be able to do the same as now, have fun until the night in a nightclub, at any moment to break into an interesting business trip or to rest and generally pamper myself in every possible way?". The family will appear necessarily later, and then you will have very different priorities in life, so while fate gives you the most precious moments of freedom - use them in full, live to the fullest. And then happiness will come.