Prepare yourself for the fact that you will have a serious and difficult work, a simple "romance" and "languid glances" you will not get away. Consider a few rules that will help you maintain a wonderful relationship with your man.
The way to the heart of a man lies through his stomach.
Sometimes modern women forget about this famous rule and instead of home, cooked with love, dinner man is waiting on the table for hot dogs or pre-heated convenience foods. Even if you have a lot of time and effort taking work, and in the evening you come tired, take the time to prepare a man his favorite dish or bake an incredibly tasty pie. Let him understand and appreciate your abilities and diligence.
If you do not know how to cook, then it's time to start learning. Fortunately, there are plenty of books and websites devoted to culinary delights. If your mother or girlfriend knows how to cook deliciously, ask them. They will gladly help you become a good housewife, share their "little culinary secrets".
Surprise your man!
Forget the image of the "Soviet" housewife in an old stained dressing gown with curlers on her head and steers in her teeth. Many modern designers of women's clothing develop a series specifically for home socks. It can be cozy suits, lovely blouses, skirts and shorts. You can choose the style that suits you, and throw out the old stretched sweater in which you have been walking the last three years!
If you do not work and do household work, this is not an excuse to turn into a "bunch", which is only interested in preparing dinner and gossip neighbors. Be interested in news, find your hobby, hobby, sign up for "cutting and sewing" courses (any other that you are interested in).
Be always interesting for your man. Change your image, make unusual appointments. And your man will never look the other way.
Be his friend, mistress and mother.
However strange the combination of these roles might seem, this is the key to success. A man needs a loyal friend who can discuss football and gossip with him at work. A man needs a mother who will support him, sometimes he will listen, he will take care of him, tasty food and follow the house, mom, who will regret and tell you how best to do it. A man needs a passionate and dissolute mistress. Here, I think, comments are superfluous.
Let him feel like a hunter.
From the distant primitive ancestors of men remained the innate spirit of the "hunter". The harder the test, the sweeter the prey. Let him feel that he will not get you so easily, that he will have to try before he gets a "strawberry". Men appreciate women who need to be sought.
Let him spend time with friends.
Many women after a man next to them take a position: "You should spend all your free time with me, and you have nothing to do with friends." This is a very big mistake. Allow your man to plan his own time. Before agreeing to invite parents to spend the weekend at the dacha, consult your loved one. Thus, you will let him know that you respect his opinion and appreciate his time.
It is not necessary to assume all responsibility for important decisions, men themselves like to decide and plan. Otherwise, he can move to a more accommodating and less active person.
Enough to call him!
You know that now he is at work, and, probably, busy with serious negotiations, so put the phone back on the line and do not call then to find out what to cook for dinner, or ask a hundred thousandth time: "Do you love me?". Do not monitor his calls every five minutes if he lingers at work or with friends. Meticulous questions irritate men.
Call only for an important matter. And in general, let him experience, where are you, and how are you! Believe me, very soon the man himself will start calling you.
Jealousy is not the place.
Every man is an owner, if a woman is next to him, it means that she is completely his, and he will not tolerate flirting with other representatives of strongly gender. However, to themselves they leave such a right. Take it easy for him to consider passing women. Remember, men love eyes!
Do not give him cause for jealousy, and do not be jealous of every female colleague. The main thing in a relationship is trust, which can very quickly get lost from your unreasonable jealousy. In addition, in the heat of anger, you can tell a man a lot of unpleasant things, for which you will later have to apologize. Do you need it?
Lies for salvation.
Once again I want to repeat that the most important thing in relations is trust. Even the smallest lie can destroy what you have been building for so long. No matter how trite it sounds, but the bitter truth is better than the sweet lie. Tell the man about all your secrets. Let you never have things or events that you should hide from each other. Naturally, you demand the same thing from your loved one. The game should not be in one gate.
Do not interfere in your relationship with third parties.
Even your most serious and terrible quarrels are not worth talking about to their friends and, especially, to your mother. Your relationship - it's only your business and involve in the "disassembly" of a third person - stupid and wrong. For men, it is very important that you do not talk about your relationship to friends and parents. So, if you have such a "buckwheat", then make sure that those who are aware of your problems "keep your mouth shut."
All of the above rules are true for most men. Of course, you need to know the habits and character of your loved one, on the basis of which, you can supplement this list. Let your relationship be full of love, mutual respect, honesty and loyalty!