Set of the gentleman
At the very beginning of dating, the presence of such an original "chip" in a man, as a hobby, always gives him an interest in the woman's eyes. Avot having started a relationship with him, a woman always wants all his interest to be concentrated on her alone.
But you did not meet in the kindergarten? Although there is already a tama of each child, there is a certain circle of friends and hobbies. That's why you need to respect the right of your chosen one to cherish and groom your hobby, with which he "signs" much longer than with you. His hobbies are a part of the inner world, where you just take the first steps.
Of course, you can start fighting and even win, for example, at the time of the weekend Lisa, Maria Presley was able to convince her spouse Nichols Cage to sell the collection of comic books he had collected since childhood and now very much regrets it.
In the opinion of psychologists, it is common to consider parting as a natural result of such a fight: for men, the presence of a hobby is very important. There is a hypothesis that says that the man's destiny is considered "breaking through the unprecedented": the development of new varieties of activity, the seizure of new territories, the conquest of peoples. Creativity and risk - another necessarily life of the man.
How can this be embodied in the modern world? Hence it has gone that our faithful choose themselves "strange" hobbies, with the help of which they try to implement the unrealized elements of male self-assertion. By the way, the more stable the existence of a man, the more original his hobby and greater kneem attachment.
How does this affect love? Absolutely nothing! Plus a hobby can save a man from other harmful ways to diversify life. Therefore, let the best he collects stamps, than after going to the bar "conquers peoples". Moreover, the world of male hobbies is very diverse.
Collection hobby
Beer cans, badges, labels, trinkets, nasal tiles, no, your chosen one does not suffer from kleptomania, he simply as a "hamster" seeks to assemble the collection.
What's stopping you ? Kuchavsheskoj nonsense in the house. Constant visits of strangers who come to buy, look, exchange or sell. And, finally, this hobby is in a considerable "penny".
A glance from the side . Whatever the "full assembly" in time will be able to gain appreciable value. All the original elements of the collection can be used as decorations for the interior. By the way, the collectors themselves can be very interesting to talk with.
"Classic" hobby
"Fanatism" of hunting, fishing, cars, some kind of sport-in other words, the hobbies are not anything different from the standard ones.
What's stopping you ? Short-term, constant leaves of native walls. For example, on one fine Saturday morning, they offered him not to get out of bed all day, but he said: "It's mandatory, I'll just go fishing! I miss the guys! ". Immediately gathered, whistling, went to the destination. And such is always ...
Look from the side. Agree, do you have your own female "classical" hobbies? They are simply uncomfortable. But if you approach the business of separate pastime wisely, your mutual absences can perfectly compensate each other - a hike in a sporting event - fitness, hunting - shopping, spending time with friends, hen party, digging in the car - SPA procedures. And where is the problem here?
"Social" hobby
Today's "knights" forge their armor and massively show themselves in tournaments, but flash mobs with great passion step by step plan their mass actions.
What's stopping you ? The admirers of the extraordinary "social" hobby constantly want to have "disciples" and "followers". For this reason, you will be intensively invited to join these ranks.
A look from the side . In case you share your boyfriend's view, his extraordinary hobby can easily become yours. And if the ideas of your loved one do not inspire you at all, you should prepare yourself for the fact that sooner or later the relations will come to their final point.
Adrenaline hobby
Karting fans, speleologists, climbers and all other representatives of the extreme are courageous, romantic, but they love to constantly and for a long time leave their home.
What's stopping you ? a) a constant and long absence of a loved one; b) the presence of "cheerleaders" and "companions" for hikes, etc .; c) the probability of injuries of varying degrees of complexity.
A look from the side. Such a gentleman is a real find to show off to his girlfriends: many extremists even get into a variety of media. But a long absence of a mobile can be spent with profit for yourself and your body or to be like some sort of courses. Factor "b" can be neutralized by meeting a beloved airport with hot kisses and always supporting him with a loving look.
Lonely hobby
Gluing models of cars, airplanes, photo hunting, breeding flowers, aquarium fish, etc. At moments of solitude with his hobbion gets a real emotional rest.
What's stopping you ? He in every possible way restricts your "entrance to his world". This causes a feeling that you are abandoned and abandoned.
A look from the side. Anyone has the right to your own personal relaxation! And it is true! By the way, on one fine day, his hobby can turn into a matter of life, bringing a pretty good monetary income.
Computer hobby
According to psychologists, it is natural for the virtual world to turn most of the elements of male self-realization into life, starting from a thirst for risk to creativity. And as for computer gamers, these are intellectuals who have a thin mental organization.
What's stopping you ? In case you are absolutely not "friendly" with the computer, your virtual component of being will seem like a frightening and mysterious "black hole", into which every evening your chosen one gets.
The view from the side . The solution is quite simple: do not be afraid to show your interest in his computer hobby - safely join his virtual entertainments, go with his grasping games, exchange interesting information on sites, etc. Believe me, being an "advanced user" is not only interesting, but useful for yourself.
And finally, it should be noted that even the most useless attraction of your boyfriend can fulfill a useful mission: he will tolerate your "madnesses". And your ways of resting from him will not cause contradictions and condemnations. And when you need money for your little ones, you will always have a weighty argument - the number of zeros (albeit approximate) that your beloved spent on your hobby.