If a guy shows his feelings too clearly

What if the guy shows his feelings in public too clearly? After all, you are very much embarrassed and makes one more time "blush". In this publication, we will try to find out the main reasons for this behavior of a guy who is too outspoken to others.

This problem looks like this: your favorite guy, at any convenient and uncomfortable moment, strives to touch you at the knee, and he does it in the very center of the public place (cafe, square, park). Or here's another situation - he constantly kisses you for a long time on the lips in the sight of everyone else, thereby demonstrating feelings for everyone to see. And these sudden impulses of tenderness can arise absolutely at any unexpected moment. And, most importantly, it continues from day to day. Of course, you also have feelings for him. But his behavior obviously makes you think about many things. After all, when a loved one so universally demonstrates his love, it will clearly become uncomfortable for many girls. This behavior can darken the whole essence of romance in your relationship. So, if the guys show their feelings too clearly, most girls do not like it.

So, why do girls not like when a guy is too partial to liberties in public places. Let's identify the main factors that affect your negative attitude towards his liberties. Firstly, many girls are afraid and shy of the fact that at such a moment they can be seen by relatives, acquaintances or colleagues at work. Then, as they say, unnecessary questions and topics for discussion will not be taken. Secondly, the girls, first of all, think about how they think about them. After all, many people can perceive you, as an easily accessible or not observing all norms of culture girl. And, thirdly, the girls do not like to show their relationships to other people. They believe that by protecting their feelings from "someone else's eyes," they will thereby preserve them. And that's right, there are so many envious and ill-wishers in the world. In addition to all of the above, in such a situation the girl can never relax and fully experience all the "sweetness" from the kisses and embraces of a loved one. And all because after you at such a moment, dozens, or even more, of people are watching.

But, despite all these reasons, many of us continue to suffer, when the beloved guy behaves this way. Here it is worth noting the fact that a man, seeing that you do not make any comments, continues to show his feelings as well, without changing the tactics of his behavior.

Of course, most of your girlfriends will tell you about how lucky you are and your boyfriend loves you so much and so demonstrates it so vividly. After all, in their opinion, this kind of behavior shows all the passion and essence of the relationship. But in reality, everything is often wrong. Let's try to figure out why the guys are too often openly show their attitude towards the girl.

1. There are men who are always true actors in the soul. Therefore, he always wants to attract to his person "spectators, craving spectacles." So he demonstrates feelings in this way, as if implementing his "little script".

2. Your chosen braggart, and, snatching such a tidbit (I mean you), trying to show everyone what his beautiful girl and what an idyll in dealing with her. By the way, this reason should be very flattering to you.

3. Your second half is an outrageous person. He adores inadequate situations that cause a surge of adrenaline. And that's why he behaves this way in public places, trying to get at someone's comments or statements about himself. Your boyfriend clearly strives to tickle his nerves, receiving a condemning warning from outsiders. He simply takes risks and, thanks to this, experiences the peak of his shocking character. Plus, your lover stands out very well from the crowd and is very proud of it.

4. Your narrowed-down person simply does not have the strength to restrain himself and his desires, which overwhelm him and simply kick him out with a key. Therefore, he absolutely can not (and does not want to) wait for the moment when you will remain tete-a-tet and nobody will interfere with you. Inspired by the feeling of passion, without realizing that, your young man simply "publicly eats you", while not at all noticing the indignant looks of passers-by.

5. He is visited by a feeling of pleasant feeling from the fact that your couple is not at all like everyone else. Here the whole point is that by demonstrating your liberties in public places you very clearly look at the background of other lovers and, thus, stand out.

Here they are - the main reasons for what prompts your young man to such behavior. By the way, pay attention to the fact that all these five reasons do not speak at all about the fact that your chosen one has a strong love for you or you do not care about him at all. Therefore, to beat all the bells and shout to the left and right that you and he have problems, it is not worth it. Just in this way, he shows his prejudices and complexes. Mostly the guy shows his feelings for show, if he is very confident in himself. Therefore, due to the shocking nature, he tries simply to draw attention to himself. This kind of behavior can last as long as the guy does not grow up psychologically. And while this has not happened to him, he will remain a selfish and spoiled man, who requires constant attention, tenderness and affection, and moreover at this particular moment and place.

If you are so worried about this problem, remember that all people can succumb to upbringing. Therefore, you can always try to instill in your loved one the manner of good and modest behavior and the ability to always think about the opinions of others. Just talk to him directly and tell what you really feel at that moment. Especially when you have to look in the eyes of those people who most recently watched your prelude with kisses, for example, in a park on a bench. And if he really loves you, he will certainly cease to behave like this.