You will think that you will not live with your mother-in-law and you will be wrong. The most important thing you need to think about is that the future mother-in-law is the mother of your future husband. He knew her even before you, for him she is the closest and dearest woman. And now you want to move it from its pedestal, even if you do not pretend to its place. You need to understand that now you will become the main woman, but apart from you, no one should know.
How do you like your future mother-in-law?
The meeting should be planned for both the future mother-in-law and for you. You need to be restrained in everything: in behavior, in make-up, in clothes. A mother-in-law dreams of such a daughter-in-law, about a modest beauty and clever girl. Do not use a lot of make-up, tint eyelashes, emphasize lips with glitter and this will be enough. The main trump card will be naturalness. The manicure should be neat.
Style
In clothes, give preference to refined, reserved and feminine things. For dinner, you need to wear your favorite feminine dress, it will be a win-win option. And the bag will emphasize your unique style. The leather of the bag and its deep, soft colors are what you need.
Decoration
If there are ancient ornaments, they need to be worn. Accessories will become a topic for conversation, so you will demonstrate your future mother-in-law that you are not indifferent to family values.
Conversation
From how you convince the future mother-in-law, that her son is your most beloved, desired man for life, will depend whether she will entrust her "baby" into your hands. A good way to get your future mother-in-law to her will be to show her that in the heart of her son she takes first place, no matter how much he did not love you. Ask what dishes your fiance likes, how to behave with him when he is not in a mood. Ask, what gift to give your beloved. Let your future mother-in-law understand that knowing your groom's character and her opinion is valuable to you.
In advance, ask your future husband what his mom is interested in, what she understands, what she likes. Remember that you will be asked about your interests and you should not miss the opportunity to show your erudition. Everything should be told without boasting. Tell us that you are interested in her son's hobbies and sincerely rejoice over her son that he has good genes. Then your future mother will have a smile on her face.
Maintain a casual and easy conversation. Avoid unpleasant topics, because you see your parents for the first time and do not know what can hurt them. Do not worry about the topics for the conversation, probably the future mother-in-law has a lot of questions for you. And the main advice - smile, be polite and open, and then you will succeed. Good luck.