The feeling of love can be compared to insanity. Passion sweeps everything else in its path. These moments in the life of any couple are unforgettable.
How many years does love live? Scientists and psychologists, thanks to experiments and interviews conducted, it was proved that the strongest love has a shelf life - on average it's four years.
And what about the sexual attraction? Naturally, very often it happens that people grow cold to each other in sexual terms - the attraction on the physical level disappears. And, sex happens less and less often, and, sometimes, sex completely disappears from the relationship between a man and a woman.
How long can a relationship without sex?
Paradoxically, but in our time, the lack of sex in a relationship is no longer surprising. In Japan, for example, a large number of couples publicly admit that there is no sex in their relationship. This is not embarrassing to say in all the media. The lack of sex in Japan for someone is quite natural phenomenon, but there are those who suffer from this problem.
In fact, a relationship without sex can last a long time. There are couples who do not suffer at all from lack of sex, continue to live together, creating strong and happy families. Here are a few examples of such pairs.
The partners are well with each other. Sex for them is not a manifestation of love or a pledge of a happy family life . Their relationship is already harmonious. They know how to show their feelings in another way: caresses, respect for a partner. For such couples it is much more pleasant to walk along the autumn park next to each other, spend the evening after a heartfelt talk or, sitting in front of the TV, join hands and sit silently.
And, do not be surprised, such couples are not an exception to the rules. If a person does not draw a parallel of sex - love and happiness, then it will not be difficult to build long and lasting relationships without intimacy.
Another version of the relationship, where there is no sex. Spouses are for each other the closest people on the emotional plane. Often they have children, a wonderful life. What is most interesting, they are wonderful friends and partners, but there is no sex in their relationship. Between them there is a contract - sex is allowed, but "on the side", that is, with other people.
After all, long relationships can last without sex, if all aspects satisfy both - both man and woman. Only by mutual consent, the "Family-by-family, and sex on the side" agreement will bring both happiness and a sense of harmony in these relations.
Unfortunately, such a model of the family does not have a future in our country, since all are accustomed to believe that our men are allowed everything, and the female destiny - work, home, children.
Relations without sex have a right to exist, if only both partners feel comfortable in such conditions. But, what to do if there is no sex in your relationship for a long time, but you absolutely do not like it.
According to statistics, from the lack of sex, women suffer more. This affects both psychologically and on health.
What are the outcomes of this situation usually found by a woman? She begins to look for any kind of activity, capable of distracting her from sad thoughts. It can be anything: work, sports, charity. The idea is one - do not leave a single minute for thinking about the lack of sex.
But, if you do not want to break off relationships in which there is no intimacy for a long time, if your man is still expensive, then one tip is to try to solve this problem and return the long-awaited sex to the relationship.