Recipes of a happy family

Unfortunately, princes on white horses long ago rode off somewhere. Therefore, we, modern women, have to love their husbands, along with all their shortcomings. But what to do if, for example, a tap in the bathroom has been flowing for a month now, but does your beloved stubbornly not notice it? First of all, remember that snakes and women have one thing in common - wisdom. Having connected to wisdom the charm, the woman is capable to twist from men ropes.


Situation 1
Our strength lies in our weakness

So, let's start with the tap. Instead of day and night to remind her husband that he is dripping (a tap, that is), you can play a headache and voice in a weak voice tell your husband about a dream that you have been tortured with water dripping on a thread.

However, such a subtle hint to the addressee may not come. A wise woman will meet her lover in a touching image of a confused girl with a wrench in her hand, her face full of despair: "I wanted to fix it, but it did not work out for me ..." It is first necessary to scatter the useless bathroom and the adjoining territory a set of tools, including a saw and a soldering iron. While he is busy with the tap, it is necessary to follow his actions with undisguised admiration and ask questions like: "So these tweezers are pliers, yes?" The whole subsequent evening passes under the sign of his power.

Situation 2
Magic Words

The method is similar to that used by psychotherapists who, with the help of inconspicuous word manipulators, are able to immerse the most unyielding patients into trance. In order to unobtrusively impress your favorite vision of the situation, pseudo-type questions are very good:
"Darling, but the kettle has already boiled?" Or disguised statements: "Have you noticed how your secretary is dressed in bad taste?" The word "OR" is generally irreplaceable. For example, you can ask: "When will we go to the bazaar on a Saturday or Sunday?" As a rule, the question "Should I go at all?" Is no longer pronounced.

Situation 3
About the benefit of flattery

Who said that only a woman loves ears? In fact, men are very indifferent to compliments. The main thing is to choose a dignity that is difficult to assess objectively. For example, if a man says that he has an amazingly pleasant timbre of voice, it's difficult to check, but his mood rises, and this is a good background for talking about buying a new vacuum cleaner. The main thing here is not to overdo it. For example, you should not tell a bald man that he has an original hairstyle.
Well-proven way to praise a man in the presence of third parties: "You know, he's so considerate, can flowers without any reason to give" or "He gets along so well with the children, I can not do it." On Sunday, when he will drive the children to the zoo, you can safely lie on the couch with a detective novel.

Situation 4
We take to fright

Men's avarice for compliments is one of the central themes of our conversations. There is always talk about something, because often the situation develops as in an anecdote. To draw his attention to himself, you are desperate to put on a gas mask. "Did you pull out your eyebrows?" He responds. There is a great idea. Combing his long hair, which he had not admired so long, one should be skeptical: "Is it cut, or what?" No power to dry this hair. And maybe you can repaint yourself? "You can also think about a plastic operation to reduce the bust or color contact lenses:" They say that now the brown eyes are in fashion ... "
The behavior in all possible situations, of course, can not be described. But the main rule of some moments of communication with your precious half, you probably already understood. The main thing is a wisely placed trap.

The fate of marriage is decided at the start

The fate of marriage can be predicted quite accurately in the first years of its existence. This conclusion was made by American researchers, tracing, within 20 years, 156 couples.
It turned out that most of all the hopes for a successful and long-lasting marriage can be found among those who managed to maintain a positive attitude towards the spouse during the first two years of life. Those who divorced after seven years of marriage were the happiest lovers at the start of a new life. But the sweet dream was not long: to part with the illusions it took only a year of living together. This "dynamics of relations" indicates a high probability of divorce after several years of marriage.