Any couple, after some time begins to experience difficulties in personal life, which are associated with a misunderstanding. There is a whole arsenal of patterns of misconduct that can destroy relationships. Psychologists decided to give advice on how not to behave, in a critical period, so as not to aggravate the situation.
Do not overdo the second half too much
Even the most vivid love can go into oblivion, if it is fed with constant suspicion. Many girls, and men, too, consider it their duty to ask partners, where and with whom they are in the meantime. Some begin to check their pockets and personal items, hoping to betray treason and catch red-handed. Any person will give up their nerves. After all, no one wants to become an object of eternal suspicion and disrespect for himself. The first thing you need to do is to learn how to respect your partner, build relationships with trust to a friend. If doubts do not leave you, you will have to discuss everything with the eye of the eye.
Do not compare the object of your love with others
Nobody will like it when they compare it with another person - more successful and beautiful. Ivash protege is no exception. If you begin to compare each other, point to the dignity that others have, but do not have you, and also to expose him or her in a bad light - do not be surprised that the relationship will come to the end. Every person wants to be considered unique and special. It is very easy to offend a partner by hitting a living. It is necessary to settle in his beloved the belief that he is the only and unique on earth. If you do not have a place and can not accept any disadvantage - do not tear the hair, talk in private and come to the solution of the problem.
Complaints against the partner
If at each problem that has arisen within your family, run out to tell friends or acquaintances and cry in a vest - think, do you need these attitudes? Yes, you are in a rage, you are overwhelmed with negative emotions, that's just the problem of this in no way will change.
Any problem should be learned to solve with a partner, and not run for help to friends or acquaintances. Of course, you will be given a lot of advice from your past experience - that's just think, will they suit you? The people of nature are different by nature, and that does not suit some, it is quite to their liking. In addition, the risk is high that you lose the reality of what is happening, after listening to all sorts of advice.
The best thing to do in this situation is to sit down and discuss everything with a Spartner. Only you, you can tell and explain what is unsettling, and try to find a compromise. An important rule - learn to listen, even if you want to tear off the offender. Count to ten. You can leave the room temporarily, then return and continue the conversation.
Constant scandals
A woman can do three things from nothing - a hairstyle, scandalous salad. If you like to quarrel, you do not want to listen to anything, it means only one thing: you do not know men at all. Men, unlike women, calmly treat small things and do not worry about the populists. Are socks strewn all over again? Why did not you lower the lid of the toilet? Why on the table crumbs? Where in the fridge is an empty plate? Occasions to quarrel, you can find a lot, that's just what a man wants to live with such a hysterical? In the end, he will go to the one that will not bother with trifles. I think it's time to learn to restrain yourself and not to swear at any occasion, if only because the nerve cells are not being restored.
Learn to Forgive
Forgiveness - the lot of strong people and forgiving, you need to learn. First of all, for yourself. Even if the conflict is resolved without your participation, everything is equally worth talking to each other and asking for all forgiveness. Reconciliation after a not-forgiven quarrel, one way or another, will leave a negative imprint on the partner's soul. It is better to forgive and forget the conflict forever, than each to talk about it.
A small change in behavior will necessarily cause a strong happy relationship and a positive attitude, because when we are happy, when everything suits us in this life, we carry a piece of heat and a positive charge of energy, which is so necessary for others and us in particular.