How to take revenge on a man for meanness

It is rumored that we ladies are very vindictive beings. It's not about bloodthirsty moments, not about evil intrigues. Most ladies have something that makes them retaliate for some offense. Usually we take revenge on male individuals who have betrayed us, abandoned. So how to take revenge on a man for meanness?
First of all, forbid yourself to cry, look for non-existent problems, run after the consolation to relatives and acquaintances, track down the traitor, and even more so make trouble with him. Pursuing all this nonsense, you will only make yourself worse. Better get involved in useful work: change yourself. Ask, why do I need all this? We explain. Becoming better than you are, you thereby force a man to analyze his actions, and looking at you, he will often think: "What kind of fool am I that left such a woman!"

Well, let's take revenge on the man for meanness!

1. Change the surrounding space.

First, get rid of his things, so as not to callosely once again. Tear it, throw it and your photos. In extreme cases, take my mother. If the former did not take their things, then pack them in a bag and send it to him with the courier. Do a repair in your apartment (room). If this is problematic, then change the curtains, move the furniture. In a word, make sure that every visit to the room makes you smile on your face.

2. Get busy!

Do not let yourself become dejected! Go to work, plunge into it with your head, it will be the best revenge. The more intensive the working day goes, the less you will remember your sick heart and the mean man. By the way, by this you can give impetus to the fact that you will be noticed and subsequently promoted. That's the first plus of your revenge.

3. Say goodbye!

It's time to free yourself from pain and revenge. This will help you a little ritual. Take the balloon filled with gel, draw a mug on it. This is your former love. If you want, you can write briefly what is bothering you. Look at the ball, say goodbye to him and ... let him go. As soon as the ball disappears from sight, you will surely feel liberation and lightness in the soul.

4. Change yourself!

It's time to think about yourself. Let yourself be reborn! Go to the beauty salon, change your hair, take care of your legs, hands. Spend shopping. If possible, take a vacation and go on a trip. All this will cheer you up and, on the way home, you will often notice the admiring glance of men. Here's another plus - you've radically changed externally, which is important.

5. Analysis of relations.

It's time to analyze the former relationship. Think what good you got from this relationship. For example, I learned to say "no", it was amazing to cook, finally I mastered a computer program that was hard for you, I learned to knit. All these are very valuable qualities. Thanks to them, your world has become richer. Here to you 3 plus.

6. Favorite thing.

Remember what you used to be. Surely there was some kind of hobby. So take care of them! Well, what, that you forgot how it's done, that for a hundred years you did not take in your hands knitting needles, a hook, an easel, etc. But now you have time to remember all this and create, create, create ... The fourth plus.

7. A new life.

After a while you will see that for several days (or weeks) you do not remember the former man. And sometimes even look at other men. This means that you are ripe for a new life and relationship. Life goes on!

And now it's time for sweet revenge! Look at yourself from the outside, what do you see? A beauty, a confident woman, who knows her own worth. A woman, at a meeting with which the former gentleman will bite his elbows from vexation. After all, he could not see in you all this when he dared to commit meanness. Now you can calmly, looking into your eyes, tell him: "It's good that you betrayed me. Otherwise, I would never be the same as now! "