Well-known sayings and anecdotes often concern an acute topic - the differences between men's and women's logic, about this there is another opinion - from the point of view of psychology and even philosophy. After all, the beauty of relationships, as you know, lasts until that unhappy moment, when two people think about each other not as romantic heroes, but as real people. And at this moment, "vylazit" everything that has so far been successfully pushed "into the closet."
Men are from Mars, women are from Venus. The man can not understand the mind. Women's logic, what will you take from it! And, at last, friendly, in chorus - "oh these men!" (Or women). It seems that someone artificially divided us into two fairly hostile camps, which nevertheless have to sometimes come together. And maybe this division is not artificial?
But there is something natural in this division. Two women will understand each other much better than a woman and a man. So, these "camps", with their unwritten laws and daily "war" for understanding really exist ...
Mutual reproaches
Male logic is clear. At the request of his wife "Buy a loaf, if there are eggs - take a dozen" - a man in half the cases will bring ... ten loaves. Because, according to the logic of things, the program is simple and understandable. Take a loaf, and if there are eggs - then carry ten.
And one more thing that irritates many women. If the house is not sausage and shaving machine, he will bring from the store is just this and only that. It is difficult to notice that toilet paper will be needed tomorrow. As well as taking it tomorrow on the way home - and here you are laying out your favorite napkins with a beautiful Christmas pattern ...
Female logic is that thing. To say that it is almost ready, to stand dressed, and suddenly remember that I wanted to paint my nails or shave my legs. And at this time the man nervously tramples, dressed, in the doorway, and whispers like a spell: "Again we are late for a visit." To fight for cleanliness, to saw for an uneven carpet or socks (they are so inconspicuously lie in a corner!) - and at the same time scatter bottles, tubes, jars, combs and clasps on the way from the balcony through the kitchen and up to the entrance door.
And the more terrible the moment - to demand that they fulfill her cherished, but momentary desire. And what she wants - a woman at this moment and she finds it difficult to say. Then the typical turnover of female logic comes to the rescue - the reproach "Well, you're a man!"
Life or not life, that's the question ...
For a man, three mugs in the washbasin - not yet an excuse to wash the dishes, but for the woman - sometimes already an occasion for scandal. From here begin conflicts and quarrels or silent misunderstandings and claims. Any variant of reaction - as stormy, "attack" on each other, and silence, avoidance - negatively affect relations. As stated, and not expressed claims and "neponyatki" painstakingly undermine the family boat, which threatens to break down about life ...
Everything is complicated - it's easy!
Male and female logic from the point of view of psychology and philosophy are simple, like a drop of water. We are not from different planets, we are just from different hemispheres. Namely - the brain. A woman is easier and more habitual to think in images - that's what a woman understands a woman faster. "Well ... it's like crumbs in bed, you understand?" It's nice, like the sunset on the sea in summer and other, even more "heaped" images - it's still "flowers". A "berry" is that we women, so treat reality.
We see that the paste ends, we feel it with our fingers, smell from the mouth beforehand, if the toothpaste is finished, but the new one will not. We pay attention to advertising and to the goods in bright packaging. And even if the house does not seem to need it yet, it does not repair the stock of woes!
We change decisions on the go, we tack and adjust. Male and female logic from this point of view begins to diverge (and in psychology and philosophy they know about it) - if a man decides to make a salad, he will bypass two, three stores, and buy the ingredients. If a woman in the first store does not get everything she needs - she creatively adapts. For example, think up substitutes or decide to make another salad.
Amnesty for all sexes!
We are both conservative (and hence a great dislike for technology), and mobile where the man will follow the algorithms. So, it's time to announce an amnesty for all the peculiarities of men's and women's logic, not only from the point of view of psychology and philosophy, but also from the primitive-everyday point of view!
To understand a loved one is very important. And more importantly, understanding how another person works, to respect his way of living and interacting with the world. And that means ten loaves are entitled to exist. After all, a woman is a creative creature, she will think up to make, for example, a romantic walk to the lake to feed the swans. And the next time will express requests, given the severe male logic.
We are all different, but we are looking for points of contact with each other. And how joyful it is when we find them all the same!