How to add her husband to cleaning around the house?

It has long been the case that a man always associates with us exclusively with the breadwinner who feeds and protects the whole family. All other aspects of life lie entirely in the fragile female shoulders. A woman should clean, wash, raise children, look after the household, etc.

However, in the modern world, the situation has radically changed, the girls are at the head of large corporations, manage enterprises and create their own businesses. Now it is no surprise that women's financial opportunities sometimes exceed the masculine times. For this reason, a strong half of humanity has to learn to do women's affairs. However, it should be noted that this situation suits only women, because to attach her husband to cleaning around the house?

At one time I worked for a company in which there was only a male team. And at one of the lunch breaks we started arguing what men and women should do around the house. I always believed that there should not be a clear division in the family into purely masculine and purely feminine duties. Everyone should do what he has time for. That is, if a husband came to work earlier, he is quite able to collect scattered books and make a bed. But what was my surprise when all my colleagues unanimously declared that men should only earn money, and not clean up the house. They confidently stated that it would be very difficult, if at all possible, to get them to clean up the house.

It is painfully familiar for each of us situations when you are tired of returning from work with full packages of products, and you start to work around the house, while the husband quietly settled in front of the TV. Then the logical question: "Why do you need a husband, if only you clean in the house, and even earn good money?"

No one is immune to changing the roles, and whether or not to be or not, only fate and life circumstances decide. For example, a husband was fired from his job, his health worsened, a child was born - and he has to automatically take over some of his female responsibilities, or simply become a "housewife man." It is clear that in such a situation the ego of any man will swiftly go down, as he thinks that it is humiliating to help around the house. This state of affairs is very angry, he begins to delve into himself, break down, as it is difficult for him to survive in the fact that in their family is dominated by a woman.

Such a situation can end very negatively for a man, it can even go to drinking. Therefore, girls need to be very careful and attentive to their lover. It is necessary to gradually get your husband to clean up the house. If he helps a little at home: cook dinner or get out of the apartment, then sincerely praise him for his care, even if you yourself would have done it a thousand times better. You can be sure that soon he will get much better.

But in everything you need to look for positive moments, and this situation is no exception. Agree that it is amazing when you go into the apartment and you see a delicious dinner on the table, the house is completely clean, and on the threshold of well-fed and contented children and a smiling husband. After all, in this case you will no longer be sprayed into your household chores and will be able to devote yourself completely to communication with loved ones.

And now some advice directly to the man who turned out to be the keeper of the home, and started cleaning around the house:

1. First of all, discard the statement that only a woman should do homework. Understand that you are also a member of the family, so keeping in the house harmony and comfort should not only the wife, but you. Therefore, start cleaning the house without any scruples of conscience.
2. Imagine that the housework is also a full-fledged work, only slightly interpreted differently. For this reason, you can draw up a list of major and minor cases, which must be done today without fail.
3. In addition to the standard-women's affairs, do a purely masculine job, clean houses "for men." Repair the dripping faucet, attach the doors to the closet, or finally disassemble the construction tools in the pantry.
4. Do not close your eyes. If you do not go to the office, it does not mean that you do not have to go to the hairdresser's or the gym.
5. Try to still find a job in the specialty.
6. You have a lot of free time, so try to improve yourself. Know for yourself something new, it will not only distract you from sad thoughts, but also help you become a more qualified professional.

And finally, our dear men, remember that the family is one organism, and therefore everyone should help each other. Love is not just words, but actions. And cleaning around the house can be done together.