Why do we ask ourselves the question: Is it necessary to show the man that he is special? Probably, the matter is that we are afraid to reveal ourselves too much to the guy, to open his soul and cease to be a mystery. But a man needs to hunt for someone, to solve something and keep himself in a tone that way. When we show that a young man is special for us, and we are ready to do many things, it may be that he will stop appreciating his woman. After all, it's true, why waste extra money and emotions when a girl thinks you are the best. That's why the ladies need to learn from time to time to restrain themselves.
So, how to find the golden mean to show the man that you love him, but do not consider God and the center of the universe. To begin with, you have to learn to constantly look at him with loving eyes and be ready to fulfill all the whims. If this is the case, gradually it will become so used that it will not tolerate your refusal, and will always use your services as something self-evident. Therefore, you need to show not only boundless love. If you do not like something, always talk about it. It is not worth screaming and groundlessly blaming the young man for all sins. But, you can calmly express your claims and ask him to change his behavior. Remember that no matter how special a guy was for you, you must also remain special to him. For this, one does not always have to be easily attainable. Sometimes, it's worth behaving in such a way that the young man remembered: you are his princess and therefore need pleasant words and surprises. Even if your relationship continues for a long time, do not completely relax and take everything for granted. He also needs to show and prove his feelings. He is a man, and, therefore, must do something for you. In this case, it's not about expensive gifts, because it's not the price, but the attention. If you begin to feel that you stop feeling yourself special for a young man - take yourself in hand and control your behavior. We, women, like to perform any whims of young people to make them feel good, that they feel special. We cook only their favorite dishes, even if we do not like such food, we try to make it so that the house is perfectly clean, so that the clothes of the loved one are fresh and smoothed, so that he feels himself comfortable and comfortable. But, if we do not feel the impact, we must immediately stop so refined. This does not mean that the guy should go hungry and dirty. Everything that is minimally necessary, he must receive, but in order to get something more, the guy is obliged to give something in return for it.
But, if a man always tries for you and does everything to make you happy, he pays attention, pleases with surprises, then, of course, you can also show him that he is special. How can this be done? Firstly, for loved ones and special people, we can invent something that really brings them happiness. Each person has some dreams and desires, which they can not realize for one reason or another. We can help them do it, or give something for themselves. To show that a person is special, you can give him something that he dreamed of and once mentioned. Understanding that you notice what he says, remember and then do to him pleasantly, means a lot. This is what underscores its feature in your eyes.
Also, the young man needs to show that he is special in case he has any troubles. They can be very different: work, relationships with friends, quarrels with relatives. But, if you see that a guy is very pressured by some events, it hurts and bad for him, you should be there and be able to show that he is a special person for you. When in life there are some negative events, a person needs to know that for someone he is important and valuable. Especially if these events are associated with a discord in relationships with loved ones. When we in someone are disappointed or someone is disappointed in us, there is a feeling that nobody loves us and does not appreciate us. Therefore, it is extremely necessary for any person to feel that he is special to you, that you love and appreciate him and never leave alone with his problems. Therefore, even if, due to insufficient attention of the guy, you decided not to show him some time, that he is special, in such a situation it is better to forget about it and support it in every possible way.
Also, the guy needs to show that he is special when a young man starts some serious business. It can be like opening a business or writing a diploma. It does not matter how big the deal is. It is important how serious the young man is towards him and how much he worries about the fact that he may not succeed. If you see that the guy tries and it's hard for him, always support him, say that he is the most intelligent and astute, so he will succeed.
Remind him that he is special and everything can, because if it was not so, you would not love him so much. Try to convince him that he is capable of everything and do not let go. In fact, every person needs to be special in someone's eyes. Without this, it is very difficult for us to live, and we lose faith in ourselves. But, if someone constantly worships us, we stop to appreciate it, take it for granted, and sometimes even get irritated because of it. Therefore, you should not behave in such a way that the guy knows for sure that he is the standard for you, and you will never be disappointed in him, no matter how he acted. But, at the same time, he must understand that he is a special person of your life, to whom you are always ready to give a helping hand and put your shoulder, but you will never bear it on your back.