You have read the book of Love for a long time in the eyes of each other, reveling in each moment spent together. You collected all your memories by bit, afraid of missing something, losing, forgetting. So carefully decorated albums with photos, dreaming to show them to their children in such a bright and near future. You held hands and did not need gentle words - tenderness literally flowed through your veins, pulsating and transmitting from one heart to another. It seemed that this world was created only for you, nothing and no one will break it, will not break it. You were so brightly shined by the sun, even on the most cloudy autumn day, when nature was pouring down its rain tears outside the window, and trees were dropping chewed leaves. You found a special charm even in this gray rain: after all, he gave you a feeling of comfort and warmth, when you, wrapped in a blanket for two, watched as moisture draws on the glass its bizarre patterns. You were able to be alone in the crowd, not to see passers-by, not to notice cars, but simply to enjoy the fact that you have each other. But then a thunder struck. Something went wrong - and the world turned over. He, so beloved and dear, whispers something in your ear, whispers hotly and swiftly, afraid of losing all the necessary words. And you, accustomed to the fact that this whisper always told you about love, you can not believe your ears and realize that your world has been half empty for two. And when the door slammed behind him, you will quietly slide down the wall to the cold floor, get out a pack of cigarettes, light a shaking hand and ask yourself: "And how do I? How to start living anew after parting with a guy I loved more than life? Which was my life itself ?! " Swallowing tears, you will for a long time become silent, listening to your heart, which will be beating ever slower and slower ...
Agree: painfully familiar situation. Let there were no such trifles, but there were others, no less important. And the only question that pulses on the veins: "How to start living anew? And is it worth living further? ". But we must remember that after parting, even with the most beloved guy life does not end, let you now and it seems otherwise. You have to pull yourself together, wipe away the tears and rush into battle.
After all, what the hell is not joking, perhaps you have a good chance to return the one who left? Maybe your relationship was cracked, not because love passed, and not because he found another. Perhaps the reason lies in your relationship, maybe even in yourself. Even the strongest love is given to trials, which are sometimes too difficult to survive. We need to be ready for this. And some couples are not capable of this - therefore, apart from parting, they do not come. So think: was everything calm and gentle in your relationship? Or, maybe you have had quarrels and scandals that destroy the fragile crystal of your love? And, if you try to fix everything and find a compromise, you can still get back to square one?
Help you in this can, for example, a favorite activity. Do you have a hobby? Work on it closely, rest, develop, enjoy what you do. Change the type of activity - that nothing reminds you of a past life. Pour out your soul with colors on the canvas, embroider your sorrow with colored threads, play the story of your love on your favorite instrument - and the heart will gradually come to life and will be transformed.
If everything around reminds you of it, try to change the situation briefly. If you have good friends in another city - wonderful! Find out if they will help you for a month and a half? In the company of those with you it is easy and fun, you will blossom again with all colors and start forgetting about what you experienced not long ago. Of course, upon returning home, memories and longing will reawaken on you, but this is inevitable - it tempers your spirit. Simply outlive them, rejoicing at all the good that was, and not taking offense at the bad. Gradually, memories will leave your home - and you can again breathe freely in your native walls.
You know this proverb: "A wedge is knocked out with a wedge"? Very correct words, especially for our situation. Try a little flirt with a handsome man, go to a cafe with a guy, let him a little pruadarit for you. The main thing is that he does not overdo it in his efforts and does not cause you an acute desire to escape from this obsession. However, the line of behavior of the new boyfriend largely depends on your line of behavior and on how much you let him. Do not think that all men are deceivers, perhaps there is a worthy and really trustworthy guy in front of you now, so smile wider and enjoy what you are interested in. This is also necessary for self-esteem, which falls very low after a heavy parting with a beloved guy. After all, we immediately begin to think: what is wrong with us and why did he leave? And we find a lot of shortcomings, we slaughter them with our bright head and we think that with such minuses we will not have personal happiness in life. And very vain - the installation of an unsuccessful personal life will necessarily turn into that most predictable failure.
To end the parting with someone we worshiped and loved more than our life is very, very difficult, but this does not mean that your life here puts a huge fat point. Remember, it's just a comma before the new subordinate clause, just let it happen - and then you will not see any punctuation marks for the rest of your life. After all, who knows, suddenly, tomorrow you will meet real love, which will bring you happiness? ..