Any woman, regardless of sex, height, age and skin color, can strike up a relationship with a very aggressive person who is prone to violence and assault. In either case, it is best to prevent this and to anticipate its behavior until it is too late and does not lead to disastrous consequences. Now we will look at some of the signs that will help you recognize a person who is better off protecting yourself, your family and friends.
The stories of fights and participation in them
Your chosen one can tell you about how in his childhood he constantly went beaten, because his parents constantly beat him with a belt or he can tell you with fervor how he himself becomes a fighter of fights. As a rule, 30% of children who were punished by physical means , when they grow up, they become aggressive fighters. And they do not feel guilty and throw it at those people who use violence. If they have common sense, and they want to improve, they can go to a specialist who will help change their attitude to life and other people. In any other case, it is incurable and it is not even worth trying to fight it.
Splitting and hurling items
If a person in a state of passion or in anger begins to throw and break things, it means that he is self-controlled and does not know how to keep emotions, sooner or later, in the same bad condition, he can switch to people and it does not matter who at this moment finds himself at his fingertips.
Threats to use violence
If a person begins to threaten you, then never let it go to nothing, think about it. Thus, aggressive people blackmail their victims to achieve what they want. They begin to control everything themselves, at a time when you are losing self-esteem. It is not worth waiting for when this person stops threatening, but simply begins to act.
Isolation and control
If your partner constantly controls you, know - this is a sure sign that a man is prone to violence. He does not allow you to communicate with friends, does not let you out into the street and generally tries to protect from society. How does this happen? First, this man gives all his time to you and can even begin to insist that they throw out work or study to be with him at home all the time. Then he begins to control your expenses, begins to ask what you spend money on. Next, you start checking SMS on your phone and emails. He will call you a few dozen times a day to find out where you are, who you are with, what you do, etc.
Jealousy without reason
Of course, if a person is jealous, it does not always mean that he is inclined to assault. It should be considered only if he manifests jealousy for no reason. For example, he begins to show it when you are in a family circle or just gathered to spend an evening with friends and friends. He will begin to notice that you communicate with women and men, and at the same time he will become enraged, even if there is no hint of a certain flu. Such a man will always be interested in who you are and where. So he will completely control you.
Insults
Sharp, rude insults and remarks are also a sign of an aggressive person who is inclined to violence. Even if your partner says it as a joke, think about it and be cautious.
Remember that insults are a beginning and a hidden form of aggression. Thus, he will try to humiliate your family, friends, you, your feelings, interests and, in the end, he will undermine your self-confidence.
The application of coarse physical strength during a dispute
If during a dispute or some conversation your partner does not like something, he does not agree with your opinion, starts taking your shoulders, shaking, not letting go, pushing, closing the door and not letting go, then think about what, perhaps, this he does not stop there. Soon, this can grow into more severe actions.
Charges of other people in their failures
If a person by nature is aggressive, then he likes to blame other people in a row, completely pushing back the option that the fault belongs only to him. He will never take responsibility for what he does or says. Even when such a person is told that he is aggressive, he will immediately explain this by the fact that you yourself have driven him off. Moreover, such people are constantly accusing the partners and trying to expose themselves in a better light.
The manifestation of violence and cruelty towards children and animals
If a man puts his hands on children and animals, demands that they obey him, then you need to take urgent measures, otherwise the animals and the children will be severely punished. Basically, such men are ruthless and completely do not like animals or children.
Remember that if your partner beats you, then he will beat your children!
Excessive use of psychotropic drugs
Violent and aggressive people often use drugs and alcohol. Because of this they simply can not adequately think and accept the situation as it is, so in such moments it is necessary to communicate with such a man with particular caution. From them you can wait for anything.
Rush
To the signs of aggression can be attributed and constant rushku.Obychno people who are prone to violence, can not wait long until they come true. They do not like to take care of women for a long time, wishing that everything develops quickly. They can quickly call you to get married, offer to leave somewhere and have a baby. Takpartner can completely subordinate you to yourself, and you in turn will not have your opinion and time for reflection.
Continuousabidance
People who are constantly offended, everything you said will be taken into account, they are constantly ready to fight and fight. Their relationship with almost no one to argue, because they do not like it. But due to the fact that they have low self-esteem, they blame everything on the partner.
Remember that if a person is aggressive, then he will behave from the first moment of dating. First they will explain their control as care and love, but soon all this will lead to deplorable consequences, when you can not even take a step without it, but it will be too late!
If your man has more than three signs described here, then you live or meet with a potential criminal.
Perhaps it will be very difficult for you to break off relations with him, especially if you love him, and this can be dangerous for you, but you must be ready for it.
If your man has an instantaneous change of mood of rest for anger and rage, then know that this person is inclined to grinding.
After any conflict or quarrel, the man will repent, he will seem to you a good father and husband, will swear that this will happen much more. Most women think and piously believe that their partner will change and everything will be fine, but calm in such a house will not reign for long, the situation will be repeated time after time. With each situation, you will get out faster and faster, because he will know that you will forgive him and everything will get away with it. Do not subject yourself to violence, to protect yourself and your children from this. Find yourself a loving man who will love you and your children, and instead of violence will give you love, care and love. After all, every woman deserves it.
Be careful when choosing a chosen one and be happy!